Japanese girls that have lived in the U.S. all there life.

@micpie94 (358)
United States
July 31, 2008 10:40am CST
Ok. im 14 and am going to be a freshman in high school this year. I am really attracted to asian girls(especially Japanese girls). When I say this I am talking about asian girls that have like lived here all there life. Not the ones who can barely speak english, Well anyways, I would like to know what asian girls like in guys and how they liked to be asked out (I know ur probably thinking "Duh, they liked to be asked out the way any person would". But u know what i mean) So if u could help me out that would be great. Thanks! Ps. im white.
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• United States
31 Jul 08
You know..I think you may be concentrating too much on appearance and not enough on the actual character and..the personality. Asian young ladies or any other young ladies have feelings and personalities. If you concentrate more on finding a young lady to date..and she has a nice personality and is a great person, no matter what her heritage..you'll do great! I don't care that you are white..or that she may be Asian or black or Native American..or whatever she is. As long as you find a great girl that treats you well and with respect, you'll do great! Show her respect in return, no matter who you choose, OK? Open her doors, pull out her chair for her when she sits down and tuck it back under her, bring flowers that you pick in a legal place to pick them, bring sweets once in a while and tell her she is so wonderful and that she IS very special..and you will do perfect! Go get her, big guy! LOL! No matter who she is..treat ehr special and she will treat you the same! My sons are grown! No matter the heritage..treat her well/like a lady and you will always have a nice time with her! My best to you! (A mom who knows!)
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@micpie94 (358)
• United States
31 Jul 08
Thank you very much for answering my question. I don't think i'd do some of those things unless she was my girlfriend though. lol
@LimoChang (193)
• China
31 Jul 08
Hey.I don't understand why asian girls,japanese in particular attract u that much.lol Anyway,I think it really depends on that girl's personality. The enviroment would be playing a big role in forming one's personality.So i think those asian girls who have lived in the US all their lives wouldn't have too much difference compared to the native girls. However,asian girls are raised with the influence of deep oriental culture,like me,although i didn't grow up in america.I think they somehow would prefer sth not so open and upfront. Above all, it's you that will make a difference,so no matter what you do,try to be yourself and let her fell in love with your true self.If she really likes you,the answer wouldn't be "no".Good luck with that.
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@micpie94 (358)
• United States
31 Jul 08
Thanks a lot for your answer. I know it will help. But what is "sth" In the sentence " I think they somehow would prefer sth not so open and upfront?
• China
1 Aug 08
sorry for the misunderstanding.Sth is short for something.next time i will try to make it clear.
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@micpie94 (358)
• United States
1 Aug 08
ok