Ways to face defeat ???

@Ganesh44 (5547)
India
July 31, 2008 2:53pm CST
Best ways to face big defeat and financial losses in life ??? Yes with all ur wits and wisdom u r ended with defeat....u r eyes r wet and heart becomes heavy....efforts r wasted time is lost and people come making fun to u..... sound tragic but if happens how do u face such big defeats rather disasters in life..... Thanku Ganesh
2 responses
@klaudine (3651)
• Indonesia
31 Jul 08
I experienced that once and I felt it like quite devastating ho face a financial breakdown. But what happened was that no one make fun of me, they give their sympathy and tried to help as they could. I believe that there are people that wanted to help me at that time. I was so sad and disappointed but I always remembered what my friends said to me back then, that I shouldn't feel that way. That should motivates you to be someone stronger and work even harder to deal with the loses. Defeat your desperation and get up to be someone better
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
31 Jul 08
its great that u have supportive people with u that was ur luck because financial loss allows all to exploit one to fullest .....man this world is full of Ghost... But wish u dont find one ...thanks for sharing ur tragic experience ALl the best Ganesh
@klaudine (3651)
• Indonesia
31 Jul 08
well... actually my financial breakdown happened because of another backstabber. I thought he was a friend, but instead he made a good way to take my money and left me with nothing. Thank you, and for you... good luck too :)
@spalladino (17921)
• United States
31 Jul 08
You pick yourself up, dust yourself off, take a deep breath and try again. Every defeat is a lesson even if you don't know at the time what the leason is. I once didn't get a job that I really wanted and I thought it was the most horrible thing to have happen to me but, because of that defeat, I went in another direction entirely and ended up with a much better paying and more satisfying position in another industry. You never take defeat laying down...you need to always try.