I have been cranky lately and taking it out on my boyfriend.

United States
July 31, 2008 9:02pm CST
I think it must be the heat, because I have been really crabby lately and don't mean to snap at my kids or my boyfriend but I have been lately. I feel bad afterwards when I do. I need to be able to work on not being so crabby and not letting the heat get to me. He works hard all week as well as I do and is always in a very mellow mood. I wish I could be like that. I need to find a great way to apologize to him-any ideas?
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@snoopy88 (452)
• Australia
1 Aug 08
I was exactly in your position the past two days. I don't know why too, maybe for financial reasons and not doing good enough as I should be for my age in regards to career wise. But then later, I will just face what my situation is and tell myself that this is life and it's only the beginning for me. My life is too short to let these little things gets me down. I didn't really apologize to my boyfriend but just return to my sweet self hehe. Cheers'
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
1 Aug 08
My girlfriend is the moody type, she doesn't slap the kids but she shouts at them even with me.But afterwards she will make a way by bring them out even she's that busy and talk to her kids. She accepts the mistakes or what she has done and saying sorry. She explains to them why. She lets them understand life. Why certain problems is affecting her or the stress. Whats important is she's accepting her mistakes. What she does is to me she will surprise me by cooking my favorite meal and giving me a big smile and gives me a big hug. She will tell me I love you I know i was not treating you nicely lately, and now I'm coping up with those days. Have a nice day!
@Djbrat (333)
• United States
1 Aug 08
Wow, it sounds like your talking about ME! I'm exactly where you are. What I do to apoligize to my husband is I look him in the eyes and say I'm sorry for being so crabby and I am wrong for snapping at you and the kids. I really need to work on it and I'm very sorry. Please forgive me.