What Do You Think About LDR (Long Distant Relationships)?

Malaysia
August 1, 2008 12:50am CST
i'm currently having a LDR. my boyfriend is in new zealand studying and i'm in malaysia. he's only coming back in October for 3 months. i miss him dearly and it's really hard to be away from him. what about you? what do you think about LDR?
3 responses
@lchiat (1070)
• Malaysia
1 Aug 08
hi.... For me maybe i cant have long distance relationship.. I think it is quite hard to maintain!!! Me always stick with her at school or after school. Cant imagine if one day she go overseas and study!!! Oh My God!!! Lolx...
@lchiat (1070)
• Malaysia
1 Aug 08
Hm... If really like this then try to get used to it. But i think it is really suffering for me. Happy myloting!!
• Malaysia
1 Aug 08
but what if your work requires u to go overseas or a few weeks? a few months?
@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
1 Aug 08
That's hard decisions, but you can make it, LDR is about 90% of trust and 10% of feeling, i once have LDR for almost 1 year, and i already together right now, once again both trust and patience will be required to make this work Have a nice relationships and Happy MyLotting ^_^
• Malaysia
1 Aug 08
thank you =) it feels good o noe tht im not the only one. hehe. i've been with my bf for almost 3 yrs now and i see him for less than that. it's hard. really is. and you're right bout the 90% trust. =)
• United States
1 Aug 08
I think that Long Distance Relationships are harder then relationships where you get to see your significant other often. I do believe they can work though, I have been in a L.D.R. before. The important thing is to have trust in the relationship. Sometimes being apart makes you fall in love all over again! Take care and happy mylotting!
• Malaysia
1 Aug 08
is it something like distance makes the heart grows fonder? =) thanks and i really appreciate what you wrote about "being apart makes you fall in love all over again" that's so sweet and it's so true! =D