Big Woman----do you ever get sick of hearing.........

United States
August 2, 2008 1:30pm CST
Im a big girl always have been. i was 6 lbs when i was born and when i turned five i started packing on weight. now just cause im big doesnt mean that im lazy cause im far from lazy i have alot of stuff i have to do and it keeps me on the run. what i hate though is how people refer to things--- my dr says " you know you have to watch what you eat, you have a growing baby inside and well i dont know if you know but "BIG WOMAN USUALLY HAVE BIG BABIES" YEAH RIGHT-----SINCE WHEN????? my mom was big and i was 6 lbs i was big with my son he was 8 lbs my cousin little miss skinny prissy thing had a 10 lb baby so why is it just because im big my child will be born big??? does the dr think i set around and eat bon bons all day and lick the frosting off cakes???? my boyfriend is just as bad-- he loves big woman hahahahahaha but when the things get tough and going gets bad and he gets upset then its you fat b*tch get off your lazy a** etc... then i have to say if it wasnt for this lazy a** you wouldnt have meals, clean dishes, nothing would be done if it werent for me so what are you complaining about...then he appologizes stating he was upset. Big woman dont retaliate like that i dont run around saying things like you skinny such and such ........why do skinny people do it?????
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@michelled (326)
• United States
4 Aug 08
i know what you mean , you know just because we have more to love on the outside , it is whats in the heart that matters. trully i think it all because society it self says woman should be sexy , skinny and perfect. when you are not up to that expectation then you are fat and lazy. I have been heavy all my life. diet here diet there. but now at 34 i say screw it , i am who i am. and you know what i love how i am. I am a mother of two so yes i am on the go all the time , not lazy by far.
• United States
2 Aug 08
I think it is really sad to make assumptions on people just because of their size. I have known people who are big because they are just plain lazy (yes she is very and I mean very lazy and nasty) and some who are big because of medication (raise hand). Some who are big just cause they are, some who are big cause they can't say away from food....the list goes on and on. But what is outside has nothing to do with what is inside, with the exception of one cause she is just nasty inside and out. It would be nice if your boyfriend would get a clue and not talk down to you like he does. I have been married for 19+ years and I wouldn't put up with that for a second, angry or not he is wrong to talk to you like that. I think if you are healthy (yes big people can be healthy for all you doubters) than your baby will be fine. If you got health issues they you probably already know them and well on your way to making sure you do everything you have to, to make sure your baby is born healthy and well.
@neelygal (1022)
• Bahamas
2 Aug 08
I honestly dont know but it does tend to hurt us ladies with a little extra to love doesnt it.What do you think we should do about this?I get sick and tired of this also.