My girlfriend gone with my friend. What can i do?

@dheal888 (283)
Indonesia
August 3, 2008 11:07am CST
Two days ago my girlfriend gone with my friend. I can't forgive her and my friend because my heart was broken also hurt. What do you think about it?
11 responses
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
3 Aug 08
Dont FORGIVE, Just forget them. Why do you want to cry for a girl who can cheat on you. Be brave the life's too short to cry man. MOve on and give it a jerk. Someone more better waiting for you dude!
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@dheal888 (283)
• Indonesia
5 Aug 08
I get much better now. Before that, I felt my time goes by everything seems gone. For future someone more better waiting for me, I think. Thank a lot of friend.
@suzu12345 (470)
• India
3 Aug 08
well why dont you try being with the girl of ur friend ,,may be this will work,,only in case she too is beautiful like ,,urs,,wth this u will not only have ur revenge but will also be committed again..lolzz enjoy dont be hurted,these girls are no ones,,wellwisher,,if that girl couldnt love u,,she would love noone
• India
5 Aug 08
lol u would never find a girl that loves u by herat,,of course she will show off,,but this is like nibblnnig facts of life..u would never ever find a girl,,this is girls ppsychology..better be aware of them
@dheal888 (283)
• Indonesia
5 Aug 08
Good idea friend, sometime girl can't explain, i think.
@dheal888 (283)
• Indonesia
5 Aug 08
I think it's need time. Not now for try to another girl but anyway I totally agree what you said. Next time I must find girl who loved me with the heart.
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
4 Aug 08
I am sorry this happened to you but the only thing you can do now is find a new girl who will appreciate you and not be so bad to you. I don't know if you will ever be able to be friends with both or either of them ever again. I don't even know if you want to. For myself, the answer would probably be no.
@dheal888 (283)
• Indonesia
5 Aug 08
Yes, next time or after all, time goes by. If all my hurt and broken not in my head anymore, i try that. What do you think new girl who will appreciate me? I'm man who loved career, family. I'm just a simple man.
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
5 Aug 08
Your exactly the kind of man most women would kill to meet! I wish you good luck!
@dheal888 (283)
• Indonesia
5 Aug 08
wow..i hope so. Take care you too. After all of your advice today make me happy and i feel better now. God bless you my friend.
@mari123 (1861)
• China
8 Aug 08
really?Doesn't she love you?
@dheal888 (283)
• Indonesia
8 Aug 08
I'm sorry respond you later. Before that, she really, really love me. We made spend time together, life so beautiful. But, i don't understand why she....?
@zeroflashx2 (2491)
• Philippines
3 Aug 08
I totally agree. Give it time and don't let it stop you from living your life. Do your best to move on. The ordeal you're going through is totally understandable. The betrayal will mark its spot in you and the trust may not go back again. In time, try to at least forgive and let go of the hurt. You will most likely not forget it but if you forgave them, you can easily shun it aside and move on. You owe it to yourself. Take care.
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
That good to hear. You can do it. There are other people who matters such as your family and friends. Take care my friend.
@dheal888 (283)
• Indonesia
5 Aug 08
I hope you too my friend. Take care you are and have a nice day.
@dheal888 (283)
• Indonesia
5 Aug 08
You are very kindness friend. Your advice make me feel better now.
• India
3 Aug 08
oops that ws sad. Just try to forget her. and i try for the next one. i know if u really loved her then it will be difficult for u forget her but just try. and yaa next girlfriend will help you to forget her but dont get attach with her also. And i think you should thank god that by this you get to know that she was not in true love with you. by the way from how much time you both were together
@dheal888 (283)
• Indonesia
5 Aug 08
Thank you AnilMehra. We were together 2 years. We are together were spending time, love, and anything that my life so beautiful. But, yeah, now i must forget all.
5 Aug 08
two yearssssssssssssssss oye kehri kuri si mainu v das de
5 Aug 08
oooo yr me really sorry i thought u to be someone else n respond u in such a way i m really soory dear well yr best way is to forgive n forget n keep urself bussy in other activities well time heals everything
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
3 Aug 08
I can understand the hurt. It is a betrayal of trust. I don't think there is much you can do. There is an old saying, that time heals all wounds. Give yourself some time. After you have moved on you may find forgiveness is easier.
@dheal888 (283)
• Indonesia
5 Aug 08
Thank you very, very much for your attention. Now, I feel my heart cooling down.Yes I must to try forgiveness event that very hard.
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
Obviously, your girlfriend doesn't love you anymore. I understand how hurt you are but it is more difficult if you will pursue her eve if she doesn't want you anymore. Just accept the reality and moved on.. she is not the one for you. You deserve a good and sincere lady who will love you and never leave you... Good luck... cheer up.
@dheal888 (283)
• Indonesia
5 Aug 08
Thank a lot of friend. My feel better now. I think what can i do now is just forget her. She is not the only girl in the world. Have nice day and take care!
@vimaal (3361)
• India
3 Aug 08
hi friend, don't worry about it. You forget both of them.take care have a nice day.
@dheal888 (283)
• Indonesia
5 Aug 08
Thank you...I hope you too. Happy nice day. . Someday, may be I need your advice again or we are talk as a friend. Agree?
@color210 (34)
• United States
3 Aug 08
I think you should forget about both of them. In my experience if someone cheats once they will have no problem doing it again. And if this guy was really your friend he would have been out with you girl. Just get rid of them both and don't look back, you'll be much happier for it.
@dheal888 (283)
• Indonesia
5 Aug 08
Your advice very wise.Your true about my friend, he would have been out with my girl. Honestly, I don't know why he? Anyway I tried that...
• China
5 Aug 08
i have fogotten who sad like this "the opposite of love is not hate,but forget",maybe you can't forget them in short times,but life is going ,everything changes at any time,sometimes give up is to own better !to be strong ,there's nothing !
@dheal888 (283)
• Indonesia
5 Aug 08
yes my friend...your advice make feel going better. I got much advice and that's all was take me to be strong man. Take care you too!