Do You Have A Best Friend?

United States
August 3, 2008 10:38pm CST
My husband is my best friend. We are closer than any of my girlfriends are with their husbands. We share everything with each other. When I have a good day, it just is not perfect until I have told him about it. I trust him completely. In a world that seems to be encouraging divorce, we have been married nearly 30 years. It is great to be able to say "I married my best friend" Are you and your spouse this close? Who is your closest friends?
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21 responses
• India
4 Aug 08
Well my gf is ma sis is ma best as i share everything with her & vice-versa. We r so attached to each other tht we miss each other if one is not there . I thank god for gifting such a gr8 sis & a frnd to me .
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@sivanj (1263)
• India
4 Aug 08
thats a great feeling to have a good friend and a sister in one. you will have lots of affection to share and care. wish you and your relation all the best for the times to come. may God bless you both with lots of happiness and joy.
• United States
9 Sep 08
Actually, I have a couple of best friends. My husband is one of them. The other two are my mom and a woman I have been friends with for nearly 10 years. It is great to be able to say you married your best friend. It's also great to say that your mom is your best friend.
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• China
5 Aug 08
My favorite books is my best friends.Since I went to my university,I'm so deeply interested in English that I have no enough time to get preparation for my final exam.Much knowledge from books make a difference when you're not aware of it. but also,reading book could be the best may to kill time,doing a great thing in such some time would be proved you're a good time-saver. Keeping a good habit,your friends and you will benefit from it.
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@sags2008 (128)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
Jordan Signo is my best friend ever since in my high school until now he's my best friend.
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• China
5 Aug 08
You have such a happy life and so do I. My best friend is my hubby, too. We spend the hard times and share the good times. I love him and he loves me. So cherish your happy time and love your best friends.
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• United States
4 Aug 08
My boyfriend is my best friend. I had a wall up when I met him and he climbed right over it and I love him for that. He opened me up and made it okay to share what I was feeling inside without the fear of what he or others would think. He is truly my bestest.
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@ketan_ (39)
• India
4 Aug 08
it was ur life u did wht u wanted .....choosing ur best frd as ur husband....,,but choosing ur best frd as ur hasband really endes up in divorce ...,,every now n then heard in this colony or that colony.....,,its ur mutual understanding tht has kept u buond to each other ....thts great .......making wrong wht has been happing in this world for quit now n then ....is really ..priceless n ..comparable....!!
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@SHAMRACK (8522)
• India
4 Aug 08
Dear friend, You are so lucky to get a best friend like that. For me I have few best friends and person whom I had married has been departed and now my friends are near to my own home and some of them are in other countries. I do know how valued are best friends if they are true to heart. I again appreciate about your husband being a best friend that is really a big bonus of God.
• Sweden
4 Aug 08
I think my best friend is my husband,who knows me well..i tell him everything about me.and he tell me about him..we share almost everything we had and know.When i cry he comfort me when i feel alone he makes me laugh,I think my husband is my everything.
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@Icyfairy (284)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
4 Aug 08
thats so sweet. my bf is my best friend and when we get married i will be able to sy my husband is my best friend. just like you! I trust my bf completely and i tell him everything and he does the same with me. i love spending time with him so i can definately say that he is my best friend. and i'm in love with him.
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• Canada
29 Aug 09
I have what I like to call a FAMILY of best friends. Maybe network would be a better word to describe them, but I chose family, because they are like family to me. It's impossible for me to choose one best friend, rather I have a whole group of special friends that are more than friends to me in that they could be brothers and sisters to me if God had put us in the same family, but since God didn't make us biological relatives, I'm thinking that the words "brother" and "sister" need to be re-defined. of course my husband stands apart from these people, also as a best friend to me, but a totally different kind of friend, since as my husband, he's so much more than just a friend. So who are my best friends? Many! Who is my life partner? Only one.
• Vietnam
5 Aug 08
My best friend was my classmate. Now we're separated since we left high school last 2 months. We still go out together regularly (Well, I go over her house like 3 times a week). We share everything and we haven't had a chance to fight once because we agreed with each other everything. Our other classmates even thought we were related! She is the best best friend the lucky me have had.
@Celanith (2334)
• United States
5 Aug 08
Yes my husband is my very best friend, We have been married 39 years and will be 40 next spring. I share everything with him. He is my sweetheart, my lover, my playmate, my heart and soul. My daughter is my best girl friend and we enjoying being around one another she lives two miles from me and I see her almost every day and watch her children for her. My entire family is pretty close some more than others. I do miss my mom who is gone now these past three years. I trust my husband 100 percent and we dance and laugh and share our life. I miss him when he is away for very long and he misses me. Some times when we are working around in the house I will say "am I in your way" When he is doing something and has to step around me or something and he says back. "No dear, your never in my way" I would miss you if you were not here. That is how we are.
@eaforeman6 (8983)
• United States
4 Aug 08
My daughters, my husband, and my sisters. All of my best friends are in my family. We have a blast and I love them all dearly. Each one is very special to me and there for the good times and the bad.
@robert19ph (4584)
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
[i]Hello villageanne, Yeah, I could consider my wife also as my best friend. She is always there for me. If I have problem, she is there to give solutions and advice. I always consult her before making any decision, most of the time. Like a friend that you can depend upon. So it's great to get married and at the same have a friend. Regards.[/i]
@Opal26 (17690)
• United States
4 Aug 08
My boyfriend is my best friend. I can tell him everything. I just wish it was the same for him. He has a problem opening up to me. Has gotten a little better but he is a very closed up person. He keeps everthing inside. I keep telling him that that is no good for him but this is the way he is. I don't think it is a trust issue, I just think that is his way. I also have a best girlfriend who I can tell everything to and that friendship is mutual. I can tell her things about my boyfriend that are bothering me and she does the same. We aren't always able to see each other or talk as much as we'd like to but I know that she is always there if I need her and she knows I am always her for her.
@icegermany (2524)
• India
4 Aug 08
i really felt very nice listening to it that ur husband is ur best friend but for me i feel my mom is my best friend i share everything with her she is so supporting n i like to be with my mom i share most of the things with my husband but there a few things i cannot share with him allthough i can mention him as a good friend forever
• India
4 Aug 08
hii friend. i am not married, but my girlfriend is my best friend so after marriage automatically my wife will be my best friend. and same here as you said. we share each and everything. there is not an single thing that she doent know about me and same with her. she care for me more than anyone else i love her and she is my bestest friend
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
First of all I 'm very happy that to know a couple like you who has been 30 years married. Cause now a days their a lot of couples who are devorce or separated. My bestfriend is my girlfriend. Who listans to me all the time, accepts my mistakes, and who I share my life with now and would like to spend the rest of my life. God bless! have a nice day!
@debjit (339)
• India
4 Aug 08
I share similar relationship with my spouse also. My girlfriend is my best friend. She is the only person, I can share everything with. We understand each other very well. After being my girlfriend, she was a friend to me for almost 3 years. Then she became my best friend and now my girlfriend. So, we share a beautiful chemistry between us. We know each other very well and that adds extra privilage to our relation also.