Have you?????

August 4, 2008 12:02am CST
Have you ever experienced being desliked by your boyfriend's granny? The moment I got to meet my boyfriend's grandma, there's this feeling of uneasiness. She is not that type of person who is so vocal. She never said anything but I know, according to the way she looks at me, I knew exactly that she does't want me. Maybe I am just so paranoid but the feeling of uneasiness is just but so intense. My boyfriend explained to me that his grandma is really not that type of person who would say whether or not she likes anything else or someone else. What must I do with my boyfriend's granny? Who among you guys had the same experience?
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5 responses
@skbh12 (2946)
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
so far this hasn't happened to me yet and i am very lucky to have a boyfriend who's family welcomes me to their house wholeheartedly. they show me a very warm welcome everytime i pass by to visit them and my boyfriend. i am even close to every family member of my boyfriend. isn't that great that i have a stable relationship with them?
@rsa101 (40976)
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
Well I think you have nothing to do at all since as your BF has said she is like that. So unless otherwise she says something that she doesn't like about you, I bleieve, you should be yourself ans stop being so conscious about how she feels about you.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
4 Aug 08
i am not into in any relationship. so this situation has not occured with me. but if it really happens, then i should you should just think of the fact taht you are going to be settled with your BF, nor his granny.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
Cool down, don't conclude. Your bf love you very much, he wont introduce you to her grandma if he doesn't love you. What important is your relationship with your bf. Don't think it that way. Be positive. Your lucky to meet her grandma. As for me I met the who family of my gf. I feel un easy, I know I can't please everyone. My gf was telling me just be your self, what is important you met my family and really love you very much. I don't care what they will tell after wards. What is important is us. Next time you see the grand mother try to smile and relax. Try to be closer. Even she won't talk to you just be nice.Like opening up how are you and hold her hand. Don't make it a big deal.
@mEisky (824)
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
well,i haven't experienced being unlike by His granny.:) but i think she's scary.:)