is there non-fraternization in your work place?

Philippines
August 4, 2008 5:18am CST
Non-fraternization (may be called differently in other companies) is basically having intimate relationships in the work place. There are certain rules such as a manager cannot engage in an intimate relationship with his/her direct subordinate. I can still see the point of it being implemented since it tries to prevent favoritism at work. It happened a lot of times in a lot of companies where the manager favors a subordinate whom he/she is involved with. It may even lead to office politics and may have adverse effects to working conditions and employees resigning and leaving the company if it's rampant. I'm not against office relationships though. As long as both are responsible and fair to everyone else, I wouldn't mind. If they're at work, they should work, when they're off, let them do what they want. Have you seen or experience similar situations? How did the employees take it? Take care.
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@ellie333 (21016)
4 Aug 08
Hi Zeroflash, there are no rules like that within the company I work for and in fact there are a couple of married couple that do work within our place and also best friend scenarios and sisters but it doesn't cause any problems at all. I worked for a boss once who married his secretary but it didn't change how they behaved in the work situation, it was all very professional. I suppose it all depends on the inviduals really. My mother worked for my father for many years and he was her boss and one of our neighbours, who my father in fact sacked as he vilated a major company policy so no favourtism was shown. Ellie :D
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• Philippines
4 Aug 08
That was really nice Ellie. It's good that they kept their professionalism and is able to put a line between personal and business. Well, sadly, it's quite rampant here and it goes with my industry. (sigh). I'm pretty sure that was a good place to work for. Yeah, it was tough but I had to fire 3 of my friends. But I had no choice as well. It's hard being fair but it is the right thing to do. Thanks and take care!
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@ellie333 (21016)
17 Aug 08
Thank you so much for the best response, really appreciated. Ellie :D
@subha12 (18441)
• India
4 Aug 08
I am not aware about this any policy which can be called workplace romace. but there are many such relationships in our company. i have seen taht. in many acses the managers favours a certain person.
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• Philippines
4 Aug 08
That's very true. A lot of couple emerge in companies and manager/sub sometimes result in favoritism. There are indeed some, just like Ellie's, that are professional amidst the temptation to favor someone. We had one case where a supervisor had a relationship with an agent. Here in the Philippines though, they looked bad to most employees. We had a hard time being peacemakers. Thanks and have a good one!