What if your EX says....?

@sharie16 (2213)
Philippines
August 4, 2008 6:35am CST
I would want to conduct a survey. You have to answer the survey with an honest heart. What would you say if your EX says...? * Why did you let me go? * I still love you... * When did we last talk? * Will you go out with me? * Hey, can I give/ask you for a ride? * I cannot keep my promise to you. * My friends say we dont look good together. * You have changed. * Can we get back together? * Oh, I knew what this all about. You found someone else. * Don't you realize? You are the one who hurt me! * How can you forget the memories? * Where are you? I need you. * I will always love you..
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20 responses
• United States
5 Aug 08
Why did you let me go? The same issues came up time and time and time again. I heard a lot of promises, but no change. You promised to get your anger under control. You promised to get rid of your bad habits. I got a lot of talk, but it turned out to be oxygen being inhaled and carbon dioxide exhaled. You kept saying that you wanted to progress in your life, take up a skill...it never happened. Instead you went back to the same friends, the same old ways. I saw you make dumb decision after dumb decision after dumb decision. I saw you get into trouble with the law left and right. After the first probation, I thought you had learned your lesson. But you kept getting into more and more trouble. So one day before Valentine's Day, I got a revelation. To quote Aimee Mann, I realized that "that's just what you are." You are like Typhoid Mary. You are a drama magnet. Everywhere you go, drama drama drama seems to follow you. You think I want to be with someone like that? Come on sista. Get real. I still love you. I will always love you as a friend. Your feelings beyond that are your cross to bear. I've moved on. As you know, I am now happily married to someone else. And I am sure there is someone out there for you. But will you be ready for him. You need to grow up first. Hey can I give you a ride?/May I have a ride? Yeah, sure, what's a ride between friends? I cannot keep my promise to you. I would never ask you to. That part of our lives is water under the bridge. Let's just forget about it and move on. Let's be the best of friends. And please accept my best wishes. My friends say we don't look good together. Moot point. I am now happily married to someone who doesn't care what we "look like" to others. Part of why we are not together now is because you cared too much about what other people thought. You have changed. Change is part of life. Let's say I have grown in my relationship with Jesus Christ, whom I love very much; my wife, and also with myself. You are the one who hurt me! Girl, don't even go there. Don't twist this to make it all about you. Think about this: By going back to your old habits and old friends, you hurt my feelings. It took me a while to get over it. At times at work when we first broke up I would have to literally PRAY to keep from breaking down right in front of that machine. So don't talk to me about hurt! How can you forget the memories? Well, we had some beautiful memories. But you know, some bridges are burned in life that can never be rebuilt. Yes, we had some good times, even though our relationship was a hot mess. But the time has come to move on. I met someone God has used to heal my heart. We fell in love and got married, and I have not looked back. That being said, I can't stress enough that I do wish you the best. Can we get back together? Like I said, I am already married. Sorry! You found someone else. Yup, dearie. You got it. And like I said, I am sure God has someone really special for you.
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
Great post! Thanks for sharing your experience as well... Well if we've been hurt by somebody else, there are much better one that was really meant to us. And your right your ex can find someone better, and who knows by your past relationship, she might as well become a better person and learn from her mistake. Happy posting!
• China
5 Aug 08
1.Because I had given up on you. It never works. 2.I'm sorry. 3.Now. And please leave me alone. 4.Excuse me? 5.Not necessary. 6.That's ok. I know you well enough. 7.They are absolutely right. 8.Always. Everything changes. 9.I'm afraid not. 10.If that makes you feel better. Yes,I do. 11.Then I am sorry. May I go now? 12.I have a poor memory. 13.Sorry, I'm in the airport. 14.Not now,honey. Haha, it feels cool. It was a bad break-up you can see. Anyway, enjoy this topic.
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@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
Yeah..i bet it is...Welcome to mylot! Happy posting!
@Hatley (164167)
• Garden Grove, California
5 Aug 08
hi sharie well I am old fashioned only married once but here goes as a hypothetical situation. 1. because you were an idiot 2.sorry too late now 3.six months ago 4.no you are an ex goodbye 5.no you blew that a long time ago. 6.right promises should always be broken 7.then leave before you shrivel up from my contamination 8.really so have you. 9.no no no no. 10.yep sure,whatever 11.oh really thatsnews to me. 12.easily really easy 13.somewhere over the rainbow so get lost. 14. well thats just too bad, as I dont always love you.
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
Thanks for answering the survey! Happy posting!
@rocker21 (2717)
• India
4 Aug 08
* Coz you left me before * where was it when you decided to leave me? * Is it Important to remember it? * sorry m not single * no thank you * You never did * They are wrong * You changed me * Never * yes and tats your own best friend * I really wanted to i dont have to realize it * They are my nightmares i didnt forget them * Ask me, M here * M there for you always but dont expect me to love you
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• Philippines
4 Aug 08
These are my answers: Why did you let me go? ~ Because I am tired of your reasons. I still love you.. ~ You should have told it before. When did we last talk? ~ I don't know when did YOU last talk. I do talk always but I don't get any replies. Will you go out with me? ~ Sorry, I think I will be busy that day. Hey, can I give/ask you for a ride? ~ No, thanks. I cannot keep my promise to you.. ~ I know, promises are really meant to be broken. My friends say we don't look good together. ~ Fine, then we should not be together. You have changed.. ~ It's all because you have changed too. Can we get back together? ~ I don't think our relationship will work. Oh, I knew what this all about. You found someone else. ~ Oh come on. YOU found someone else. Not me. Don't you realize? You are the one who hurt me! ~ I don't realize it because everything I realize is it is not right to love someone like you. How can you forget the memories? ~ Like how you forget me. Where are you? I need you. ~ I am just here but hard to reach, like you. I will always love you.. ~ It is sang by Michael Johnson, isn't it? I love that song.
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
Nice post! I supposed we should really answer it that way!
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
thanks miss. :)
@rkrish (3003)
• India
5 Aug 08
Why did you let me go ? I am also thinking, why did i. I still love you Mee too When did we last talk When you said, you committed to somebody else Will you go out with me last but least, the only place where we love to spend time hey,can i give/ask you for a ride sure, in a car as we need to live for traditions I cannot keep my promise to you You can, when feel to do My friends say we dont look good together We loved each other for ourselves, not for your friend. But sure we can live good together You have changed Change is permanent, I changed for your goodness Can we get back together let time decides on that, if good we may oh i knew what this all about, you found someone else i also don know how it has happnd, but life goes like this Dont you realise, you are the one who hurt me i want you to live on your way, it is not hurt How can you forget the memories 1% is what you speak , balance 99% is with me Where are you I am still in the place where you left me I will always love you... Get me before i die for you !!!! A hearfelt questionaarieee !!! ***
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
You sound like you still love her/him.... Thanks for taking time to answer the survey.... Happy posting!
@Tianna2 (1273)
• United States
5 Aug 08
* Why did you let me go? I was tired of the fighting * I still love you... I dont love you * When did we last talk? We're talking now * Will you go out with me? NO * Hey, can I give/ask you for a ride? No thanks * I cannot keep my promise to you. thats why we;re here * My friends say we dont look good together. They are right * You have changed. No, You have * Can we get back together? NO * Oh, I knew what this all about. You found someone else. NO * Don't you realize? You are the one who hurt me! I was hurt long before you were * How can you forget the memories? I cant....I tried * Where are you? I need you. I'm gone... Get over it * I will always love you.. Are you going to be a stalker? Thoe would be my answers. Cheers, Tianna
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
Thanks for answering the survey! Happy mylotting!
@subha12 (18449)
• India
5 Aug 08
i am not expeienced with this a si had never been to any relationship. still i will try to answer them a bit. Why did you let me go? Because you wanted me to... * I still love you... * You did not think of it when you broke my heart * When did we last talk? May be i do not want to remember Will you go out with me? * No way Hey, can I give/ask you for a ride? Somebody else deserve it now, not me. I cannot keep my promise to you. Thats why we are not together My friends say we dont look good together. Its better act accordingly You have changed No i have not, i just presumed you wrongly. Can we get back together? Am I someone heart less, just a doll? Oh, I knew what this all about. You found someone else. Thats not your business Don't you realize? You are the one who hurt me! I can say exactly the same to you. How can you forget the memories? I may not. But why are you trying to make me think them more? Where are you? I need you. I am no where. I am lost from your world. you did not needed me when i wanted., I will always love you.. now pointless...
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
Thanks for sparing time to answer the discussion! Happy posting!
@nice030481 (1110)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
* Why did you let me go? it is because i'm tired of waiting for you * I still love you...- sorry i dont love you anymore * When did we last talk? i forgot * Will you go out with me? absolutely not * Hey, can I give/ask you for a ride? my husband will get angry lol * I cannot keep my promise to you. thats true * My friends say we dont look good together. yes its true * You have changed. its because of you * Can we get back together? never * Oh, I knew what this all about. You found someone else. yes * Don't you realize? You are the one who hurt me! i dont know * How can you forget the memories? i will never forget but it is past and i have now my current lives * Where are you? I need you. i dont need you now. * I will always love you.. you have to love onother which is right for you.
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
Thanks for the post!
@cbreeze (1206)
• United States
4 Aug 08
Why did you leg me go? I was unhappy I still Love you. I love you too. When did we last talk? We stopped talking long ago. Will you go out with me? Let me think about it. Hey, can I give/ask you for a ride? Sure. I cannot keep my promise to you. Why am I not surprised. My friends say we dont look good together. Your friends don't look good at all. You have changed. Yes, I have. I'm stronger now. Can we get back together? Uh...no. Oh, I knew what this was all about. You found someone else. After you lost me. Dont you realize you are the one who hurt me. If you say so. How can you forget the memories? I can't. But I can move on. Where are you? I need you. Where were you when I needed you. I will always love you. I will always love you also.
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
I admire you for being that strong. I mean even if you still love him, at least your moving on with your life and learning from your past not to be hurt again! Thanks for the post!
@palonghorn (5483)
• United States
4 Aug 08
1. Because you said 'why don't you just leave' 2. I've heard it before 3. We last talked 3 weeks ago, long distance 4. No, I won't go out with you, I have somebody new in my life, oh but you know that 5. No, you have your own truck, and I have a Mustang now 6. That's nothing new, you didn't keep more than a few promises to me 7. Who cares what your friends say? It's not a problem now, we're divorced 8. Yes, I've changed for the better, lost weight, have a successful job (doing what you hated me to do) and I'm happy 9. No, we can not get back together, there is a reason we are apart......it's called divorce 10. No, I didn't find someone else until a year after I was out on my own 11. Yeah, and you hurt me too, so we're even 12. I haven't forgotten the memories, they are memories of the past, and the past is just that........the past 13. I'm 1600 miles away, call a closer friend 14. I'm sure you will.
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
At least you're moving on with your life right now. And hope you'll become more happier. Happy mylotting.
@debu004 (182)
• India
4 Aug 08
My response would be in the manner as you have kept the questions..... * I was bored with you so wanted someone new. * Thats weird.I don't think so...... * I think you better remember.... * Nah !! Sorry, I have an appointment ..... * Yeah sure,but not at this moment.I gotta go..... * I know you never kept your promises.So this was not the first time you are saying.... * Even my friends say the same thing.So I changed you...... * Yeah I know I have changed since I left you.Now I'm really enjoying without you..... * Yeah we can be together in our next birth.Not this time atleast.... * Yeah thats true I found someone new.By the way how did you come to know?? * Yeah but I cant help..... * I can forget the past memories by refreshing my memory...... * None of your business...... * Well I stopped loving you the day we broke up.So better change your mind.....
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
The way you sound was that you hate your ex that she might not as well be as good as you wanted..Or your relationship was just too dull, i guess. maybe you really get over her..Well, goodluck to your relationship, hope it is much better than your past... Happy posting here in mylot!
@carolscash (9498)
• United States
4 Aug 08
This is sort of odd that you posted this today as I just seen my ex fiance due to his mother dying and we have a daughter together. We had a nice visit and I actually enjoyed talking to him and we did discuss some of these issues. Here are the answers that I would give to those questions: "Why did you let me go" --- I didn't let you go, you let me go. I never came up on our relationship. "I still love you" --- I appreciate that and I still love you to,but I am glad that we have moved on. I will always care about you and hope you do the same. "When did we last talk" --- We just talked. "Will you go out with me" --- No, I won't as we are both married. "Can I give/ask you for a ride" --- Sure "I can not keep my promise to you" --- Well, I know that promises aren't always kept and I am sorry that you can't. "My friends say we don't look good together"--- Well, friends are important,but what do you think about us. "You have changed"--- I know that I have changed and you have too. We are a lot older and more mature now that we were when we were together. "Can we get back together" --- No, we have both moved on and we are both married and have our own lives now. We are ex finaces and that is the way it will stay. "You found someone else" Yes, we both did. "You are the one who hurt me" --- No, you are the one who hurt me and in your heart you know that. "How can we forget the memories"--- We can't as we have a child together and you were my first love, but we can move on and enjoy the memories that we have. "Where are you? I need you." --- No, you don't need me. You have a family now and they love you. "I will always love you" I appreciate that and I will always love you but we both have our own lives now. We have talked about some of this before and it is nice to know that we can discuss things like this now.
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
At least your happy now with your life. Goodluck with your present! Hope that would last forever! Happy mylotting! And thanks for sharing!
@marababe (2510)
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
If my ex says: * Why did you let me go? - I didn't. I hang on to you but YOU were the one who let ME go. * I still love you... - I do too. I'm just not admitting it to anybody. * When did we last talk? - The last time that we talked was 2 years ago. That's also the last time I cried over you. * Will you go out with me? - Maybe. * Hey can I give/ask you for a ride? - Sure. * I cannot keep my promise to you. - What promise? Besides, you gave a lot but you didn't keep ANY of it anyway. * My friends say we don't look good together. - Don't worry, so do mine. * You have changed. - I know. I don't think I can say the same to you though. * Can we get back together? - I might sound stupid, but yes. I think I can give you and us another chance. * Oh, I knew what this is all about. You found someone else. - Was it me? I thought that was YOU. * Don't you realize? You were the one who hurt me! - No, I don't cos YOU were the one who left me for another girl, crying my eyes and heart out. * How can you forget the memories? - I didn't. You did. * Where are you? I need you. - I'm right here. Waiting for you. * I will always love you... - So will I. Wow, I re-read my response and it sure made me feel a little uneasy. Looks like I still want him back after all.
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
Yeah, I think you really want him back, maybe you still love him and want to try another chance. And you're just being true to what you feel..Hope you will have that chance turn out to better one...Good luck!
• Sweden
4 Aug 08
Why did you let me go?? because im tired loving you and you dont do the same. I still love you Your too late,i hope you did tell me that before. When we did last talk? I dont remember,no reason to remember it. Will you go out with me?? No,what reason for. Hey can i give/ask you for a ride? No,thank you.do that to other girls. I cannot keep my promise to you. I know you can,because you hurt me. My friend said we dont look good together. Then they are right. You have changed. because you make me change. Can we get back together? Your too late,i have already my husband hehehe. Oh,i knew what thi all about.you found someone else. Why not you cheated to me,you make me stupid,is it not reason to find someone who will love me honestly? Dont you realized? you are the one who hurt me. Coz you did hurt me first. How can you forgot the memories? I starting to forgot that memories that you hurt me. Where are you? I need you. Im here with my husband,try to go to your millions girls. I always love you. I love you before and you know that right.
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
No way to turn back to, I think your husband was much better than him. And must love you more than your EX does. So enjoy the life being with your husband.
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
Good day..This is a good discussion. I would want to conduct a survey. You have to answer the survey with an honest heart. What would you say if your EX says...? Why did you let me go? * I didn't your the one who did, I thought you've forgiven me it seemed you didn't. I still love you... * Too late, Ive found someone else I've moved on. When did we last talk? I can't remember, Did we even?* Will you go out with me? *Why? Hey, can I give/ask you for a ride? *No thanks I love walking. I cannot keep my promise to you. *neither can I. My friends say we don't look good together. * Your friends aren't my friends so who cares? You have changed. I'm just your mirror* Can we get back together? * Oh maybe in our next life, maybe. Oh, I knew what this all about. You found someone else. * No, You did? I never thought you had me. Don't you realize? You are the one who hurt me! * I never though you are capable of feeling. How can you forget the memories? * Easy make new more beautiful ones. Where are you? I need you. I'm nowhere near you nor Would I ever be* I will always love you..No need love someone else.
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
Yeah! We should really let them feel also on how they've done us. Well, their are still people who deserves us. They already failed us, so why come back, right? Thanks for the post!
@allen0187 (42895)
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
I would want to conduct a survey. You have to answer the survey with an honest heart. What would you say if your EX says...? * Why did you let me go? because i got tired of you. * I still love you... too bad, the feelign isn't mutual anymore. * When did we last talk? just now. * Will you go out with me? * Hey, can I give/ask you for a ride? no! i'm tired of riding you * I cannot keep my promise to you. neither can i * My friends say we dont look good together. my thoughts exactly * You have changed. ... for the better eversince i left you. * Can we get back together? if you were to leave me a good sum in your last will and testament and you were to die tomorrow, of course yes! if not, no. * Oh, I knew what this all about. You found someone else. yes. * Don't you realize? You are the one who hurt me! no. * How can you forget the memories? * Where are you? I need you. * I will always love you.. and i will always feel the same as well, i'll always love myself.
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
LOL...haha..nice post..the person who may heard this might just run away!
@corngrass (727)
• Malaysia
4 Aug 08
* I tried to stay with u, but i guess it's just time to let it go * When was the last time you talk to me? * As a friend, yes, Sure! As a lover, it's time to wake up, k? * Sure, why not? * Yea, i had learn that. That is why i left. * I don't care what others say, it is what you think that is important. Or was that what you are thinking? * Everyone changed, the world change everyday. It is in our hand to catch up with it or not. * Maybe, maybe someday. But not now. * No...so many years we've been together, u know i'm not that kind of person. * And you didn't? Please! How many nights you make me wait for your call? How many promise you had broke? And now you say you are the only one who get hurt? * I never forget every single moment with you. It is still in my heart, that is why it still hurt. * Where are you when i need you? Where are you after my accident that day? * I love"d" you too...
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
well, i suppose this post help you to bring out what you really feel! I hope! anyway welcome to MYLOT! happy posting!
• United States
4 Aug 08
Why did I let you go? Why didn't you ask me that when we broke up. I still love you. My feeling for you is gone so you will have to work out your feelings. When did we last talk? You should have asked about talking when the problems arose. Will you go out with me? Absolutely not. Hey, can I give/ask you for a ride? No, there are others that can do that. I cannot keep my promise to you? And this is a surprise how? My friends say we don't look good together? You shouldn't be worried about what your friends say. I'm the one who should matter. You have changed? We both have changed. Can we get back together? Not a chance. Oh, I knew what this all about, Your found someone else? If you knew that why didn't you pay more attention to me. This has been coming for a long time. Don't you realize you are the one who hurt me? A relationship is a two way street and don't lay that garbage at my feet. It took both of us to land in this situation. How can you forget the memories? Easily you killed them. Where are you? I need you? If I wanted you to know where I was I already would have let you know. You need to find someone else I am not coming back. I will always love you. At this point that no longer matters. It is too late now to say those words to me.
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
I agree with you 100%. That's our usual reaction, for once they hurt us, they should really realize! Thanks for the post!
• India
4 Aug 08
tell him that if u love me then where u been these many days?