Do you miss him/her?

@NrgDfenZ (1810)
Belgium
August 5, 2008 12:50pm CST
Hi all I have a strange question xD If you are in a relationship at the moment, do you still think about your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend ? I mean I sometimes do, I was just wondering if you too do that :) Thanx
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6 responses
• New Zealand
17 Aug 08
well yeah.. I'm friends with my exes and we do keep in touch... and my most recent ex was ok with that.. anyway she knew that I was all hers so there's no problem...
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
You know what, it's really killing me big time that I'm missing someone and yet I know I love my boyfriend. But there really are moments when I just really miss laughing with the guy or talking about pure nonsense. I know it's wrong and I'm sure it's nothing romantic (I hope) but I'm really worried as to why I'm feeling this way. Simple things around reminds me of the guy, even the music. We've both closed our chapters and have gotten to talk about it in the past, but sadly, I think I'm not yet over him or if I am already over, how come I still miss the guy? Anyways, temptations are not yet sin and the only way for temptations to become sin is if you do it or give in to it. So, I am actually trying my best not to think about the person and have put more time talking to my boyfriend and doing something else to keep my mind busy. What did you do to forget? or didn't you do anything?
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
hi NrgDfenz! yeah. even if i'm currently in a relationship, i would think of my ex-boyfriend once in a while but not always. i think we can't avoid to think of our exes when we are in a new relationship since we had a relationship before with them too. and we can't also avoid to compare things in the relationship, or even the new guy with our exes. we may miss them yeah. but i think its not a bad thing as long as we know who we love at the moment and we won't do anything to jeopardize our relationship with him.
6 Aug 08
Yes I always do miss my ex, even if we broke up 4 years ago. It's not that I'm still in love or something I just miss the friendship.
@jands1 (835)
• United States
5 Aug 08
Anytime you let someone in your life and possibly heart, that person is a part of you to a degree. I think about an ex-boyfriend a lot because he simply contacts me so much.
@vidhyavini (6111)
• India
14 Aug 08
As of now, my love relation ended just a few months before. So definitely i am thinking of him for every single moment. Even after so many years or after marriage, somewhere in your mind your first love will be there. Have to live with that. Thats what is called life.