what makes u to break a relation...?

@aengra4 (363)
India
August 6, 2008 5:17am CST
all of us need love. most of us want to make new relaions and also improve relations but a time comes when we have to break the relationship, a situation comes when we cant continue our relation.. what is that situation that breaks the two close hearts..?
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8 responses
• United States
6 Aug 08
I believe one situation that breaks up relationships is when the trust is gone. Like for instance, I am sitting here right now, as I type this, thinking hard about breaking up with a man that I have been with for 5 years. I don't trust him like I once did. We don't see eachother like we used to and being with him isn't benefiting me at all. So right there is a situation that can cause a breakup whether we want to or not.
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
I think it's time to go separate ways with people if the relationship hurts us no matter how hard we try. This happens when the respect is gone in a relationship. When the other person does not respect you anymore and does not care about how you feel, then I think it's time to let go of a relationship. This could also be true if you have different goals in life. I do not think two people in a relationship would grow together if they are aiming for different goals. There will be no harmony in the relationship if this is the case.
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
In a relation we must know when to hold on and when to let go. If we really love someone u must know if his still happy with u or his happiness does not include you. If the person u love doesnt love you back then it is time to set him free.
6 Aug 08
If the person don't trust you anymore then that's the time breaking up takes place.
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
6 Aug 08
The answer lies in the first 4 words you wrote. Read em [all of us need love. ] !!You need another water bottle when the water in your bottle gets empty
• Spain
6 Aug 08
I think it's simply when you realize (or the other does) that your heart is not that close anymore to the other (yours). It can happen even just as time pass and the relationship starts to get deeper, or for way too many reasons. The situation you talk about can usually be an offense of various degrees, or not being able to satisfy our beloved one needs, or at the very least not having worked hard enough to meet his/her expectations.
@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
6 Aug 08
Relationship is very personal and it can have a million reasons why they break up. People get close to each other, learn about their good and bad points, find out they are incompatible and break off. it could be due to finances, inlaws, oh, a million reasons. What one must remember is to be understanding in life, it is only then that relationships can nuture and grow.
@ishralene09 (2260)
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
Hmm..distrust. My bestfriend broke my heart because I told her my intentions and have told her clearly that if ever she had a boyfriend or a suitor I would want to know, because I am a suitor as well as a friend, so if that's the one that will let her be happy, then I'll concede and try to find a love of my own. I've courted her for a year, only to know that after a year she really did not tell me anything about it. And it broke my heart so much. You know, we're like the real thing back then, but there was no real relationship going on. And then after that, she didn't call me or texted me for a year, the worst part is that I knew it from a friend. I almost lost my hope back then for love. Then I found my girl and now we're still together, but then I had a secret from her and I hid it, and when I told her that nearly destroyed us, she gave me a sceond chance and I made my best to show her how I love her. And now we're two years together. For me trust is a very important thing, and if trust is gone, so is love, oh no love is not gone, for there is hope. Weeeee.