how do you deal with difficult people?

Philippines
August 6, 2008 1:30pm CST
people vary and we are all different. there are people who are easy to please and others are hard to please... and handling this kind of people is quite difficult. what would be the proper way of dealing with difficult people?
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5 responses
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
study their behavior. Even how difficult a person should be.. there is something on him/her which you can find good point to base your dealings. I have a friend who is very difficult to be with. I found out his weakness. He wants to be appreciated. when I start to appreciate him, he became very kind to me. We became best friends ever because he knows I understand him and not criticize him whatever things he does.[em]thumbup[
• Philippines
17 Aug 08
that's really great getting positive works even to positive people. thanks for the info and the post!!!
@mstgmagic (126)
• United States
6 Aug 08
I don't really have a way with dealing with them except ignoring them or just getting away from them if they are getting on my nerves enough. You can always try and compromise with them and see if that help i usually dont though i just tell them they're difficult and move on
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• Philippines
17 Aug 08
i agree with you that the best way to deal with them is to ignore them as if they do not exist. LOL. thanks for the post and may you have a great weekend.
@arcidy (5015)
• United States
6 Aug 08
Well I would ignore them. Since im good at ignoring people or try to make friends with them since try to see if we could get along. But if that dosnt work thats what grand theft auto is for so you can take your anger out on people that you dont like.
• Philippines
17 Aug 08
thanks for the post!!!
@bamakelly (5193)
• United States
6 Aug 08
I have had my share of experiences dealing with some ornery or difficult people and also children. It is not easy and sometimes you just have to have the patience of a saint. I do try to be patient and turn the other way in regards to avoiding argument. It is not always easy however. The only proper way I can say to handle these kinds of people is just a smile and a bit of understanding. Sometimes your attitude toward them could make a big difference.
• Philippines
17 Aug 08
i agree that your attitude towards them may change there attitude towards you... hehhhehe.. thanks for the post!!!
@jaffna (778)
• India
6 Aug 08
i handle them difficultly....it's better to end the discussion with them as soon as possible...or avoid them ...they would annoy us and bring us lot of distress...it's good to get away from them...