Do you eat dinner or supper?

@sunnflr (2767)
United States
August 6, 2008 9:41pm CST
On a writing forum I'm a part of there is a discussion going on about the different dialects in the US. So my question to all of you is do you eat supper or dinner for you evening meal? Here in Alabama we eat breakfast, lunch and supper. We don't do dinner at all. What's it like where you live?
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@kbjunior15 (1309)
• United States
7 Aug 08
I am from Cincinnati and we eat supper. The only time we eat dinner is if it is out at a resturaunt or something.
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@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
7 Aug 08
See I would have thought someone from Ohio would eat dinner. Don't know why. I guess I just think people up north talk more proper than I do..lol.
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• United States
7 Aug 08
They might further north in Ohio. We are very close to Kentucky being in Cincinnati, so we have lot of south in us:)
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@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
7 Aug 08
Ah, that makes sense. My brother and I have been asked more than once if we were from Kentucky. Either there or Louisiana. We have no idea why.
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• Malaysia
7 Aug 08
In my region, English is not our mother tongue but most of us use dinner instead of supper. Although so, most of us still know what supper means.
@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
9 Aug 08
Yep, and what about all the stuff like tooth and teeth, but not booth and beeth...lol. There are lots of weird things with the English language.
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@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
7 Aug 08
Do you find that the English language has more ways of saying the same thing than other languages? I've heard before that English is harder to learn because of all the weird stuff in it.
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@mentalward (14690)
• United States
8 Aug 08
I agree with you completely on that, sunnflr! I've often said that I'd hate to be from a different country trying to learn the English language! So many words mean the same thing, and so many words have more than one meaning! It's hard enough being born in an English-speaking country to learn proper English! LOL
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@myahw20 (1115)
• Canada
7 Aug 08
I didn't eat dinner today...i just did not feel like it hehe.
@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
7 Aug 08
So you don't care what it's called huh? lol
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@singout (1008)
• United States
7 Aug 08
Actually I eat both. It just depends on which one I feel like saying at the time. I lived in Alabama for a year and I think I carried some of it with me to VA. Both of them are very edible.
@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
7 Aug 08
LOL that's true. Do you find that people talk alot different in VA than Alabama? I've never been to Virgina. I'm from Georgia originally and there isn't much difference in they way people talk there and here.
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• United States
7 Aug 08
hi sunnflr....i'm originally from michigan and now live in missouri and my family has always had supper in the evening. dinner was sunday after church in the afternoon. now here in missouri people around me have dinner in the evening and laugh at me when they hear me say supper. and i grew up in michigan in a small town not in the country. and here in missouri again in a small town not in the country. it is breakfast then lunch then supper. only on sundays did we have dinner.
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@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
7 Aug 08
I've heard this before...about Sunday dinner. I think it's cool finding out about the different words used in various parts of the country. I know I say some strange words because even people here make fun of my accent and talking.
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• Philippines
7 Aug 08
uggghh... Sorry but what is the difference of dinner and supper? Here in my country I think supper and dinner is the same, you eat it at night. So anyway, I do eat dinner/supper. I eat rice at dinner/supper and a viand. I get used to that setup here. I also eat breakfast and lunch.
@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
7 Aug 08
Dinner and supper are the same thing in this case..the last meal of the day. It's just that in different states over here people call it one or the other. And some people call lunch dinner also. It's confusing.
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@1grnthmb (2055)
• United States
10 Aug 08
We have always called it dinner. When I was a kid the only day that we called it supper was on Sundays and Holidays. I really do not know why we separated the Sundays other then we usually eat earlier.
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@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
10 Aug 08
I've never heard it called Sunday supper, just Sunday dinner. Just goes to show how different it is depending on where you live.
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• United States
19 Aug 08
We eat dinner. If you'd ask my children, they are 2 and 5, they would tell you every meal we eat is dinner. LOL! For my 2 yo I don't think she has learned how to say lunch or breakfast yet.
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@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
19 Aug 08
LOL. As long as they eat. That's what's important. I miss my son being small and doing all those cute things. Of course it's fun watching him grow into an adult also.
@PearlGrace (3171)
• United States
7 Aug 08
Interesting question, sunnflr. Well, I grew up in IL and my parents always called the late afternoon meal, "supper." Somehow, I morphed in to a person who calls that same meal, "dinner." I notice that my husband also uses the term, "dinner." So, I'm not quite sure when I changed from using "supper" to using "dinner". My husband and I lived in central IL for several years and I can't honestly remembered which we called it while we lived there!
@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
7 Aug 08
There's no telling why you changed. Probably because you heard it called dinner more often where you are living now. I know when people move they say their dialect changes after a while.
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@gemini_rose (16264)
17 Aug 08
I am from the UK, and the part of the country that I am from we have breakfast, dinner(lunch) and tea(evening meal) and then anything after that is supper. I have to remember to get the terms right on here if I am talking about food because if I say I am going to have my tea, no one knows what I am going on about!
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@gemini_rose (16264)
17 Aug 08
We have our tea in my house, usually at about 5.30pm, I never need anything else to eat after this time. My children however will often have something a little later on about 8pm and that would be their supper.
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@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
17 Aug 08
And is does Tea consist of little sandwiches, cookies and the actual tea, or is there more to it than that?
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@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
17 Aug 08
See, I thought y'all had tea around 4pm? That wouldn't be late enough for supper for us.
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• Singapore
10 Aug 08
I'm not from the US but I thought dinner and supper is differentiated by the time the meal is taken. If it's 7-ish, they we call it dinner. If it is taken very late, like 11 o'clock, it's called supper. I usually eat dinner.
@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
10 Aug 08
It is like that some places in the US, but then in others no matter what time of day we eat, our last meal is always called supper. I'm sure some people call it dinner no matter what time either. It just depends on which state you are from mostly.
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@mentalward (14690)
• United States
8 Aug 08
"Technically, the word "supper" refers to a light evening meal, and "dinner" is a more formal, hearty meal. In colonial days, farmers were too busy to eat three meals a day, so they only had breakfast and dinner, and the wealthy had three meals a day: breakfast, dinner, and supper. Back then, dinner was a hearty meal that one ate in the middle of the day, and supper was a lighter meal that one ate before retiring for the evening." I got this from this site: http://www.thekitchn.com/thekitchn/surveys/survey-dinner-or-supper-046379 I think that, these days, people don't think about the true meaning of the words 'dinner' and 'supper'. They take it as the evening meal. We have 'dinner' here, but only because that's the way we were raised. I am in Virginia, which is a southern state, but originally from Maryland. Even though Maryland is technically a southern state as well (right below the Mason-Dixon line), the people there "think" more like northerners. But, since you raised such an interesting question, I'd say that, technically, I eat "supper" not long before going to bed, since it originally meant 'a lighter meal'. I usually call it a "late night snack". It always follows 'dinner' by a few hours. Everyone else around here, the people born and raised here in Virginia, call it "supper". We moved 100 miles due west from Maryland to Virginia; not south at all. It's funny how there can be such a big different in just a few miles! I'm getting used to calling it "supper" now.
@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
8 Aug 08
I've heard some of that before but it was interesting reading again. Supper is our last regular meal of the day, but it's usually not a big meal. I don't really like to cook so we have a meat and two veges most of the time. We will have a snack before bed also. I never think about Maryland being a southern state either..lol.
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@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
9 Aug 08
When I think of southern states I think of South Carolina, Georgia, Alabama, Tennessee, and Mississippi. I know there are more, but that's the ones that southern brings to mind for me.
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@mentalward (14690)
• United States
8 Aug 08
I know! Maryland sits so far up in the United States that it sure does LOOK like a northern state! I was surprised to find it was a southern state when I learned where the Mason/Dixon line was! I used to say I was a "misplaced southerner" but, since learning that little fact, I now know that I've always been a southerner! LOL, y'all!
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@LOULOU323 (213)
10 Aug 08
We have a supper here,in te morning we will have a small breakfast,and then a small lunch ,and then we will have a good supper.I generally relate to dinner as being a meal that you will eat in a restaurant,maybe that is just me thinking that way.But we have always known it as supper time,after that we eat nothing more until the next morning
@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
11 Aug 08
This has turned into an interesting discussion. Seeing the different ways and reasons behind what people call the last meal of the day.
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• Malaysia
15 Aug 08
Wow .. that is good you have only 3 meals .. in my country eating is everthing and evertime .. we have Breakfast (7.00am) / Morning Break (10.30am) / Lunch (1.00pm) /Afternoon Tea Break (4.00pm) / Dinner (8.00pm) and followed by Supper (11.00pm).. EAT ! EAT ! and EAT !
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@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
15 Aug 08
I'd weigh a ton if I ate at all those times! That's alot of eating. Are the meals small?
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@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
16 Aug 08
It sounds fun, but I couldn't do it. I don't eat much at all but everything stays with me. Of course I do have diabetes so that makes my system work incorrectly.
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• Malaysia
16 Aug 08
no in my country it is so very common .. we have stalls all around the city which are open 24 hours .. round the clock.. for clubers .. once they finish clubbing at 3.00am .. they would all go to this shops to have their .. this is also called supper as they have already had their dinner .. and every meal after dinner is supper. I like to do this on saturdays with my husband ... we will watch tv until about 1 or 2 .. then go out for supper .. the food for supper is fatty but little .. and eating them at that time is a crime to your body but fertilizer for the soul ... HE HE HE
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@cwilson26 (2735)
• United States
19 Aug 08
I already responded to the post on Michy's forum but I will post it here too. We eat dinner but I grew up listening to my grandparents calling it supper. We eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner and a late night snack. :)
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@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
19 Aug 08
I think dinner sounds more proper but I never can remember to say it. I guess it will always be supper to me.