Relationship

Bangladesh
August 7, 2008 3:52am CST
I believe in commitment.I've a relationship with my classmate for 7 years which was going on smoothly.it is time for our marriage & all he needs to do is tell his mother.but both his parents have refused to this marriage.what can i do?
4 responses
@fwangaa (3057)
• China
7 Aug 08
don't worry about that,you can marry with your classmate first,then tell your classmate's parents.i think they will don't say anything when they find that you are married.and you will be ok.and if you classmate love you.you will be successful to married your clssmate.
• United States
7 Aug 08
I am glad you believe in commitment. There does not seem to be a lot of people like that nowadays. I think you might want to be sure that is really the case that the parents don't like that. If he already told his mother and she said she didn't like it, you can say we wish you would approve but I am marrying her anyway, if you are legally old enough. Or you could wait and try to see if there is a better time. If both of you are good people ,eventually his parents will see that it is okay. It is hard but a lot of people go through similar things all the time. Sometimes the parents just don't believe the child is capable of making a big decision like that on their own and are afraid of letting them grow up. Good luck~
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
7 Aug 08
If his parents wont approved of the marriage and both of you are already in legal age. You can marry with out your parents consent. Or you can eloped together, as days goes by they might be able to accept the two of you.
• Philippines
7 Aug 08
all you need to do is wait for the right time where they would understand you and your beloved that you do need to get married.in the process,don't forget to make the parents feel that their daughter deserved you and that you are resposible enough to have a family.im sure,when they see that..they would not resent or refuse it the next time you and your beloved ask them again.you see,they are just loving parents that anxious for the time that their children would get into a family life.we should not take it against them.goodluck friend..heaps!..="^_^"=