I have a problem, any suggestions?

United States
August 8, 2008 1:19pm CST
I know my roomate is cheating on her husband, what do I do?
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10 responses
@kezabelle (2974)
8 Aug 08
ring him, send him a note, tell him face to face? who knows personally id stay well out of it, she will get what she deserves in the end.
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• United States
8 Aug 08
Here's the problem with that, (this is hypothetical anyway btw) They're married, and my entire family lives with them. Any problems could alter our way of life?
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@gwoman2 (710)
• United States
8 Aug 08
Hi SilentRose19, Just as your name...be silent...usually when we butt in and think we're doing what is right in cases such as this...it always ends up backfiring!! You may loose the friendship with one or both...so stay out of it...sooner or later the person will find out...do not let it be because of you. Seriously, I've seen good friendships break up over crap like this...remember that just as blood is thicker than water with families well relationships are almost in the same category...leave it alone...take my advice, don't do anything!! ~G~
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@sunshinecup (7871)
9 Aug 08
I would lecture the snot out of my roommate about it, remind them how ill that is to be doing another person that way. I know I would do that much. After that I don't know what else. I think I wouldn't say anything to the husband about it, but if he asked, I sure as heck wouldn't lie for her. At that point I would have to tell him exactly what I knew.
• United States
8 Aug 08
I'd say to keep out of it. That's a really crappy position to be in, but telling the husband could make things even more difficult for you. About the only thing that I can see doing would be to talk to your friend about it. Of course, whatever you do is entirely. I wish you luck!
@relundad (2310)
• United States
9 Aug 08
Unless this directly affected me or my relationship with either party, I would not say anything voluntarily. I would not lie for either party, I just wouldn't divulge anything that I knew voluntarily.
@ngaspero (851)
• Italy
8 Aug 08
If you're sure about that, but really sire, firsto talk with her and ask what's going on, listen her reason and then if youre a good friend of him I think you schould find the way to tell ihm, but for do that is better to talk with her and then decide what to do.. Nun
• United States
8 Aug 08
I think you should tell him... Because it is not right for this girl to be cheating on her husband.. I would never ever in a million yearsever think about cheating on my husband... I could't ever cheat on my husband.... I would think that you should tell this person that she is cheating on him.... Does he have any idea that she is cheating on him???
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
8 Aug 08
make her husband face the situations he wont belive until he sees it with his own eyes!
• United States
8 Aug 08
Send an anonymous letter to him. Talk with him in private. see theres this thing called karma, it does exist so if you don't say anything eventually it will bite her back in the rear =D. If you are really concerned say something. Whould you want to know if that was you?
• United States
8 Aug 08
Sometimes you just have to keep quiet, I mean it's really not your place to inform her husband that he is being cheated on, I'd say unless you know her husband really well, but if you don't then you need to maybe sit with her and see whats going on.