during a break up wil you return all the gifts your partner has given you?
By kaezy_kulet
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
Philippines
August 9, 2008 5:23am CST
I am just curious to your opinions/experiences..if you and your partner broke up and decided to part ways will you return all the things that he/she has given you or will you still keep it? and if your partner returns all your gifts to him/her what will you do to those gift keep it or give it to someone else or burn it?
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12 responses
@yenwie84 (1344)
• Malaysia
9 Aug 08
I did not return the gifts that my ex had given me. I just kept them as memories. I think no point returning the gifts to him. He also did not return any to me after we had broke up. We just broke up,walked off and kept everything as memories.
@myliezl0903 (2726)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
well, i don't return it because it is a gift, i just kept it in one file., i don't try to open it or see it up until i moved on.,Ü but i treasure it cause i know someday when i tried to open it up again, it will remind me of the past and of course learned from it.,Ü have a nice day ahead! 
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@JLMack (68)
• United States
11 Aug 08
Gifts are just that gifts, they are yours to keep. But if they are going to bring you pain then get rid of them. You don't need any more pain. But they are a part of your life and one day you will look back on them and smile, remembering the goodtimes. We all do. God Bless And Have a Great Day
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@ayessa (1583)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
I still have the gifts from my first boyfriend up to the last one and I still keep it. But when they want to have it back I can give it back to them. And if my husband wants me to throw those I will follow him or I might keep it in a place wherein he can't see it. Its just a matter of respect to my partner.
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@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
hahahahaha..you have made me laugh out loud!!! i remember seeing your stuffs here..bwahahahaha..actually you were the one in my mind when i started this discussion..^_^ enjoy mylotting sis..mwaaah
@Brokendown (1)
• United States
9 Oct 08
i did everything for my man. then i hadto move to arizona because of the economy. after 2 months he calls me up and says we should date other people, he wants to see what else there is out there. thats not what bothered me. it was the fact that he said he never loved me, never cared about me, and i never made him happy, and we were together for 4 years. so for me, i wont give back his gifts, but i will take back the one he loves the most. the guitar i bought him. it took weeks of extra shifts to pay for it, with an amp and a gig bag. its the most important thing he owns, and thats why im going to take it. im going to hit him where it hurts.
so in conclusion, i wont give back the gifts he gave me, but ill take back the important ones i gave him.
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
15 Aug 08
I find it rather stupid to return all the gifts.. I will rather that they give it away or i give them away.. BY returning all those gifts, it means that u want the other party to remember u, and u dun wanna have anything to do with them anymore..
All i know is that, never to keep the gifts all all your exs, because it will bring back memories and it will be hard to have a clean break from there ^_^
So the best way is to give away everything, if not burn them..
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@misty99 (736)
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12 Aug 08
Me?I threw all the things my ex has given to me.I never cared whether it's big or small, expensive or not.I just don't want gifts/tokens that would remind me of the pain,of the person.Same goes when he returns my gifts...out to the trash it will go.Burn?I burned all pictures and letters
@kishanganj (163)
• India
13 Aug 08
No I don't think I will return any gifts.If my partner returns them I might not take it back as they would be used and not reusable (clothes etc).I would given them away to charity.
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@enihpesoj_zetroc (190)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
it was given to me as a gift and it's just right that i should keep it.besides,it might offend him if i'll return it to him..maybe unless if he ask for it[lol].though before hand it back to him,i'll talk to him and tell him that his actions is very disgusting and rediculous as well..gaaah.however,if he happens to return my gifts i had given him without asking me to do the same,..i'll tell him that he don't need to do that tell him it was just uncalled for.i will really get offended if he does that to me coz it will just prove that he don't seem to know me well thus its like, he don't have enough respect on me even for the old time sake for doing such thing.[i'm not asking for it...duh?!]..hehehe,hope it will never happen to me..or else,..
hmmnn,i'll kiss him goodbye and run..[hahahaha]..just kidding,lmaO...heaps dear..[wink]="^_^"=
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@red_amethyst (3518)
• Philippines
31 Oct 08
hi!
no, i dont return the gifts. and when the gifts are returned I wont accept it. I think its immature to return. it is a gift so it means it is yours already. i will return the THINGS that was borrowed, i will even asked back the things that I lend to him.
take care
@roselynm1023 (950)
• Philippines
3 Nov 08
a big No! its a gift! but if he asked for it i will give it to him. i will slam it on his face hahahaha... kidding aside its my property so i will not initiate to give it back to him unless he asked for it. his a crap if he has the face to ask for the gift that he have given his gf.
