how do you reinvigorate your energies when life seem low?

@nuemann (332)
United States
August 9, 2008 8:29am CST
I want to know how you can summon up all that courage that you require to keep you going after you discover that your plans are not going the way you want them to... I mean when you feel like the earth is crashing in on you and the little magical plans you intended to get to another level. Am not sure what to do right now!... have you ever been in a crossroad with no sense of direction and nothing is comporting you to go on? Go religious if you want but I need real pratical steps cos am sure am not in this alone! all your opinions are welcome! Worried Nuel.
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@Wizzywig (7847)
9 Aug 08
Its a hard thing to do.... everyone tells you to count your blessings and that there are so many people worse off than you are. It is, mostly, true but knowing someone else is suffering more doesnt necessarily make you feel better. It just makes you feel guilty for feeling low yourself! I find that physical activity helps as it gives you a different focus. If you have someone to talk to (even if its not about the problem itself) you dont feel so alone. Or just writing it all down (I keep a diary/journal) can release some of the tension. When i went away to college, my mum suggested that, if I was feeling low, I wrote it all down in a letter.... maybe post it, maybe just rip it up - either way, its 'out'. Sometimes I'll try to list the things that are bothering me and then work on finding one small step which would either help to ease it or make it easier to handle. Relaxation tecniques help some people. I really hope things work out for you and you find the right way through. take care
@nuemann (332)
• United States
12 Aug 08
Thank you very much that was indeed insightful as well as practical. I have read ur comment all over. It seem handling like the perfect antidote for handling physical challenges. My problem right now is more of an abstract one like where do I begin cos everytime I take a step there seem to be one bigger obstacle pulling back. it takes my attention away from preconceived ways of getting by. Let me put it this way; trying to get out of a hole you find that someone else you ar somehow responsible for is below and you then go deep to give a lifeline and this eventually slows you down and sometimes makes your ascent unattainable.
@Wizzywig (7847)
12 Aug 08
My suggestions were not with regard to physical challenges but more for mental/emotional problems. They are strategies I try when I find myself in that deep dark hole with sides so steep that each time you feel like you may be going up, you just slide down again. Even when you climb to the top,there seems to be someone waiting to tread on your fingers as they cling onto the edge. I have been in this hole for a while and am still a way from the top and it is really quite tempting to just give up and stay in there - but, from time to time, you get your head out of the top and breathe in the fresh air & feel the sun on your face and then you KNOW you want more from life and have to keep trying to be the best 'you' that you can be. Its a hard slog but if good wishes could make a rope to pull you out, then that rope would be there! Best wishes.