My baby! It's been almost an hour since I put her on the bus..

@ersmommy1 (12588)
United States
August 11, 2008 9:33am CST
It's her 1st day of kindergarten. She was so excited when the big bus pulled up to get her. I am holding it together nicely. But it is so darn quiet, I can hear the dog breathing. She will be at school nearly 7 hours. Anyone else ever experienced a bit of separation anxiety on their kids 1st day of school? I will be glad when I have this baby. I don't think I am geared for this much QUIET.
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@micpie94 (356)
• United States
11 Aug 08
Isn't it summer vacation?
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
11 Aug 08
School started August 11th. This morning.
@micpie94 (356)
• United States
11 Aug 08
Wow. I don't go back to High School until September 2nd. When did her vacation start?
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
11 Aug 08
The schools in my area started back August 6th. In the next county over it started back August 5th. My nephew who is staying with me right now, He lives a few counties over and his school doesn't start back till August 13th I think it is where all the different schools had to do make up days because of being out in the winter so much.
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
12 Aug 08
I know exactly how you feel as I felt the same way when my son caught the bus on his very first day to kindergarten and how excited he was, and how hard it was for me to let him go. It does take a while but you will eventually get use to it, sort of LOL I was even hanging out for him to come home and tell me all about it, but he was so exhausted and couldn't be bothered talking about his day.
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
18 Aug 08
Thank you for BR ersmommy!
@1grnthmb (2055)
• United States
12 Aug 08
My wife exepriences this every year on the first day of school. Well, that is until this year when she celebrated when they went off to school.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
12 Aug 08
I think most mother go through this anxiety when their kids are away for first time for home. i can't say about me a si am not married and have no kids. may be my mother felt the same way for us.
@ashar123 (2357)
• India
12 Aug 08
I have never experienced such kind of thing because don't have kids still but in my childhood I used to cry alot going school. Good discussion, please keep it up.
• United States
13 Aug 08
I don't suffer the same kind of separation anxiety. I think this has something to do with house nature programmed my "Y" chromosome. I love my daughter greatly, but if she goes away for a little while I don't worry as long as I have reason to believe she's safe.
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
11 Aug 08
It was quiet? well, Me and my little sister are very close and so I was there on her first day of school and I can tell you afterwards it wasn't quiet..I bawled like a baby that my baby sister was going to her first day of school..I know silly but I am like that. I was just glad to be there to see it.
@rsa101 (37932)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
Well in my place 1st day of school the parent's are still allowed to send their children to their schools. They are even allowed to sit in while the child is getting used to their new environment. Then on the second day starts the formal schooling and parents are not allowed anymore inside the school grounds.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
11 Aug 08
Wait until you become an empty nester, then you will really feel out of it. When my boys went to pre school, they were twins, so one went in the afternoon and one in the morning, so I did not have that problem. I would probably go basaltic if there was no one in the house and my husband away at work. He worked afternoons, so there would be no one home in the afternoon. But when they went to kindergarten, the house was empty until they came home. And i hated it being so quiet. I could hardly wait until they got home and played that noisy Hungry Hippo game.
@wachit14 (3595)
• United States
11 Aug 08
I can vividly remember leaving both my children for their first day of nursery school. Last year my son began his first year of college. Talk about separation anxiety; I'm not sure who had the worst case of it, him or me. I didn't cry, but he walked us all the way down to the parking lot when we were getting ready to leave and he had his backpack on the whole time. We pulled away and as I turned around, I can see him standing in the middle of the parking lot, with his backpack on waving to us. It certainly reminded me of all the first days of school.
@irishidid (8688)
• United States
12 Aug 08
The first few days is the hardest. Then you will realize you have some time to yourself.
@neelygal (1022)
• Bahamas
11 Aug 08
Enjoy the peace while it lasts.Do some things that you would noit have been able to enjoy with your daughter around,have some fun and before you know it she will be home.
@pam210 (344)
• United States
12 Aug 08
I will be going through this in a few more weeks but I am also getting ready to move my 2nd daughter to college next Friday. Right now I can't even think about my little girl starting kindergarten because I am stressing out over the one that is going to college. Eventhough I have gone through this with my oldest (she is a senior in college and is living in her own apartment) it still is hard letting a child go. I know that a few weeks of her being away then I will be fine and enjoying the quiet but then I will have to deal with my little girl going to kindergarten. It never gets easy no matter how many kids you have. A week after my daughter starts kindergarten my son will be starting preschool and I think that is almost the hardest because my little guy is my last child and the thought of him starting school means he is no longer a baby and the baby years are gone in my house.
@Shanam (35)
• United States
12 Aug 08
Im not married and I dun have a kid....but I can really imagine whts going on in ur mind....I remember my Mom telling about my first day at School and how much she missed me.... Hope ur kid had a real wonderful day:)
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
11 Aug 08
my oldest goes to kindergarten this year too, but they don't go back till the 25th. That day she has orrientation i have to go with her, so the 26th will actually be the first day she gets on the bus herself. She was in preschool last year for 7 hrs, but for some reason I wasn't as worried about her as I am now that she is starting kindergarten. it will be far from quiet at our house though. I still have a 3 year old and a 1 year old.
• United States
11 Aug 08
If its too quiet in the house then turn on some music or something. Girl enjoy your freedom while it lasts!!! Now you finally have some "me-time" in the day to do what you want to do, and not have to worry about your child. I know right know it seems like forever til your little girl will be home. But in about a month or so you will feel like the seven hours is only two. Live it up girl, you've got some freedom!!!
@mflower2053 (3223)
• United States
11 Aug 08
Next year I will know how your feeling. I do have a younger one that will still be at home but I know I will have trouble. I know though that they have a room mother and I will have to be that when my daughter starts school next year. Maybe you can help out at your daughters school on some days it will help you get through the day and schools could use help. My aunt works for the school and they are always looking for some help from parents.
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
11 Aug 08
My son's first day of kindergarten was not a big deal for me because he had been going to daycare since he was 3 months old. I was used to it by the time school came around. Maybe you need to turn on a kid movie and spill some crayons on the table to make it seem like she is still there.