Do you think it is being inconsiderate or maybe a bad manner to
By sharie16
@sharie16 (2212)
Philippines
August 11, 2008 11:42am CST
visit friends without telling or asking them first if its okay?
well, for me surprising a friend is one way why we dont tell them sometimes..but i had also experienced it with my other friends that they get angry when not being informed that i'll be going at their house...do you think thats being inconsiderate or a bad manner?
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4 responses
@cindystoufflet (299)
• United States
11 Aug 08
I think it is nice to let someone know you are comin over because you don't know what they might be doing. You might catch them at and inapropriate time.
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
when we were younger me and my friedn use to have uninvited visit with each other but when we became grown ups and know that we have everyday schedules this dont happen so often...
though at times i am indeed very happy to be visited by a long lost friend and even if i dont love the idea i am well to pleased to see a long lost friend coming in my door..
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
yes, i think we should always appreciate a fact that our friend made an effort to visit us...i think a lil' time wouldn't be a big issue, but if it's not really possible, then we should tell our friends in a very nice way...
thanks for sharing! have a nice day! God bless!
@Anne18 (11029)
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11 Aug 08
I always try to call people and tell them that i'm going to be passing and can i pop in for a cuppa of tea.
If for some reason I go to a friends house by chance, I always make it quite clear that if they are busy then I won't stop and i'm never offended if they say they are busy, I just say ok, never mind catch up with you later, I was just passing and thought i would knock and see if you were in, but i understand that you are busy so no worries.
