should there be a problem in loving a man who happened to be rich?

Philippines
August 13, 2008 2:22am CST
should we consider the opinion of others? when they would say that you just love the person because of his money? provided that you really love the guy and the people around you think otherwise,should you be bothered and stop loving him? should you keep your love and be with him or leave him and be free from gossips?
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@rosedust82 (2066)
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
If you really love the person and he loves you then there should be no reason to leave. People have different personalities and some can actually be down right cruel. I personally think that you should not leave because of what other people say. If you do leave, it would only give those people the satisfaction of seeing you run. The best revenge would be if they see you in the future together, happily married.
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• Philippines
13 Aug 08
thanks rosedust82! i just hope they will just shut their mouth and watch.
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@jatamogue (367)
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
Wow! I'm a guy and the first thing that comes to mind is that these men really attract a lot of women. It will be hard on a woman to fight for this kind of man. Usually this kinds of guys have really have high standards, I guess that you have to be cream of the crop to impress this kinds of guys. I mean that you should be really pretty or eye candy to get their attention. I guess a lot of women are attracted to the confidence of young and successful guys. It would really be worth it. I guess nothing has really stopped couples who believe they are really meant for each other. I know that these wouldn't be a factor for such a lady.
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
I geuss what I'm trying to say is if this guys get to have a lot of choices then the woman in love with this rich guy has to watch out for other naughty kittens vying for his attention. Fight for it woman, FIGHT!
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
wow! gud to hear from a guy's point of view. that's a positive one. so you're saying that it should not be a problem and continue loving despite the odds?
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
13 Aug 08
I feel, true love is beyond material and comfort. If you love someone who is very rich just ask yourself, could you be able to live with him if he doesn't have any riches? If its true love the answer would be obviously YES. And we should not bother about what others have to say. Thanks.
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
you're right. and if only they would believe.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
13 Aug 08
well said!
@moirax23 (317)
• Malta
13 Aug 08
If you free yourself from gossip now, people will find something else to talk about on you. The reason is people always find something to gossip about. So why don't you save them the hassle and time and give them something to gossip about? I bet all of them will envy you later..
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
gotcha! il give them some homework. thanks!