Do you think you can fall in love with someone even without trusting them?
By brisk123
@brisk123 (2823)
India
7 responses
@intimate36 (1415)
• Pakistan
14 Aug 08
I agree with you , any relationship , with out trust is meaning less , and won't work up.
Just like , if you built a multistory building , you have a deep foundation ..You need deep trust , to built a relationship..
@pixiedustforyou2008 (2422)
• United States
13 Aug 08
yes it is possible to fall in love with some one without trustng them.. That what happened with my husband and i, i didn't trust my husband when i fell in love with him.... i fell in love with my husband at first sight i didn't even know my husband when i fell in love with him... The only time that i got to see my husband before we got married was only weekends so i didn't get to see him very often.... I trust my husband now that we have got to know each other...
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
14 Aug 08
Your point is also correct my friend,when we meet a stranger or make new friendship, we don't know anything about him/her whereabouts and what they do or what they did.Slowly we learn about him/her.Sometimes we fall in love at the very first sight, then only we start exploring about him in detail and we start trusting.However, sometimes it happens that you may know a person for a long time.But you are not able to trust that someone nomatter what.It is not because of something he/she did but our heart doesn't allow us to trust inspite of loving him/her.Love is weird.
@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
19 Aug 08
It is absolutely NOT healthy. No matter how much you love the person, if you don't trust them, either because they've given you reason not to, or because you just have a problem with trusting people, you are going to run into trouble. Maybe the relationship won't fail but it will be dysfunctional.
@sweetie1026 (1718)
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
I think it would be impossible to love without trusting. My personal opinion is, one can only love another if you believe in him/her. In my experience i trust first before i fall for the guy. Trust and love are the basic foundation of a relationship. How can you love someone you do not trust. You can never develop a relationship or even friendship with someone without trust. Trust comes first, then love follows. Isn't it that when one betrays your trust, it becomes so hard to
love them back again. It shatters the relationship, to make it work again, the partner who betrayed the trust must try to win his/her partner's trust back.That is what i believe. Have a nice day!
@achinthya (1216)
• India
27 Mar 09
Love without trust will lead to many misunderstandings and break a relationship.Trust is one of the most important ingrediet in any relationship.One needs to build trust with each other, if one tressures the relationship that he or she is having.Good day!
