OMG FINALLY!! super ending to a not so super summer

Singapore! oh NICE!!! that sounds like a fabulous trip...take lots of pics to share with us sir fishy!!! yea it has been a long time..and a rough road at times (we were just talking about that on the phone today actually) but I've stuck by as best as I can all things considered ya know...Sure the guys drove me nuts more times than I can count but even so..LOL when he's on the straight and narrow and NOT acting like a raging jackarse he's truly an amazing wonderful man LOL Its just KEEPING HIM on that straight and narrow and not allowing him to be a raging jackarse thats the trick LOL

If there's one woman that I know who can do it Raven. That's you!

Yea our summer was bland to say the least..which is NOT how I'd wanted it but with the gas the way its been and my husbands moms health plus his work etc etc we've pretty much been forced to have a rotten summer... good positive attitude though littleowl..Never know what will happen!

Why thank you! I'm stoked...so's he LOL...and my kids are too because they know the next visit (AFTER this one) they'll be going with me to see him...They've not seen him in about 6 yrs or more....In all honesty what would make it a REALLY happy ending is if he and his sister can patch things up since she is one of my dearest and best friends...THAT would be truly amazing! It just tears me up that they dont speak anymore and I totally see her side of it (he really did mess things up big time this last round) and wouldnt blame her if she never wanted to speak to him ever again...but I hope thats not the case..

LOL sorry Grandpa Bob..."my guy" is my bf...and yes I'm married as well...and yes my husband is taking time off work to stay with my kids (from a previous relationship) so I can go see the bf....crazy and confusing I know LOL but if you have any questions dont hesitate to ask since it really IS confusing not to mention uncommon

Hmmmm? Okay! So this is an open marriage i take it? Does hubby also have a girlfriend? Just curious is all. Hahahaha! HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~

Not too uncommon. I have sort of been in a relationship like yours for 20 years. I'm not the most excited participator but I handle my end pretty well, as long as hubby remembers I'm Alpha we're good. I know, but don't ask (cause I'll get an attitude - but part of me wants to) and he don't tell. It has worked for us for the past 20 years and probably will for a lot more.

eeeewwww ya um no you can have those appts LOL I jsut had my yrly pap and physical a few weeks back and was supposed to have other work done too but that was my fill for this yr..LOL and though i need to get to the dentist soon..taht not how I want to end my summer so Yea..sorry you can have those LOL I'm VERY excited...LOL we both are actually..its been a long road these past few yrs ya know..My kids are excited too cause they kow the next visit after this one they'll be going with me to see him and they've not seen him in more yrs than I have LOL in fact last time he saw them they were quite young....LOL my husband is probably excited as well just becuase I'm goin to be gone..I've been VERY cranky and difficult to be around lately so he probably needs the break

Yeah, four kids here. Four dentist appointments, well five cause one kid has a orthodontist evaluation next week. And three doctor appointments. We had two appointments Tuesday, two yesterday, one today and three next week. I'm exhausted (and broke). I have to make an appointment for myself for a physical and dentist soon too, not looking forward to that.

Forgot to add, hopefully you can keep his rear on a straight path so you guys don't all have to go through this again! I'm so glad mine has calmed down , haven't had to 'look' for him in years.