No really, where did you learn that?

United States
August 13, 2008 5:29pm CST
Have you ver been in a relationship for while and then all of the sudden your mate springs a new move on you? Not just a twist but like a full half gainer that makes you insecure about their true commitment. LOL.
1 person likes this
7 responses
@skenthal (1020)
• Turkey
14 Aug 08
i would say she is cheating on you. sorry. but thats a standard rule right otherwise why and where would your partner ever learn that 'new' move? she cant do it just by reading!!!!
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
17 Aug 08
ahaha yeah sometimes it happens !
@sunshinecup (7871)
14 Aug 08
No because I do that to hubby and he to me all the time, LOL. We both come across something that sounds neat to try, we bring it to the bedroom and have a go at it. I don't buy into that stuff of it being a sure sign someone is cheating if they do something new in bed. My goodness information is out there every where from friends, magazines to the internet. Why assume it has to be from another person they did this with personally? You know?
@myahw20 (1115)
• Canada
14 Aug 08
Haha. Resources never fail. Why not open some magazines and educate yourself with new stuff and be the one to surprise your partner next time hehe.
@shell1986 (405)
• United States
14 Aug 08
Well kind of...my boyfriend wanted to try anal with me after we had been together for awhile. His thing was that he had tried it in high school and wanted me to try it with him. If they don't have a good excuse or reason for how they came to know about a new move or something, then there is a very good chance that they have been cheating on you. It just depends on how well you trust your mate in an instance such as that.
@Elixiress (3878)
16 Aug 08
I understand why people would get worried, but if they had been having it off with someone else, wouldn't they be really secretive about that and not want to drop any hints like this. I assume that it is something they have picked up off the tv or with friends talking etc.
• United States
14 Aug 08
I think they say that that's one of the things that get people thinking about whether their partner is getting a little somethin' on the side, which I completely understand. I can think of other situations where it would happen, like being too shy early on in the relationship to try something more exotic, but it'd probably get my gears turning and make me wonder.