how would you feel or think about this

United States
August 14, 2008 7:34am CST
here is the deal. my son's wife used to complain about me and my wife putting up pictures of our grandson on our myspace page. and using them as default pictures. she also said if we change our pages to pavirte, then she would start sending us pictures. so we went in and did as she asked us. but still was told not to use pictures of the grandson with us as default pictures. but her and her best friend did. so we decdided we will too. we don't see the our grandson much i know they are busy and all. but my wife is legaly blind, she can see some. but one day she will be blind. and i will pretty much won't know anyone. three weeks ago my son and his wife was over. she was on my laptop. i was sitting behind her as she was on her page on myspace. i saw tons and tons of pictures of the baby. i saw one i really liked. i asked her hey save that one for me on my laptop. she was like well it won't look right if you want to print it. i will email it to you. three weeks later no pictures. all we hear from her and my son how picky she is about sending pictures. she need to crop them and crap. but she knows i am good with the computer and doing things with pictures. but we still hear this and since he was born we haven't gotten one picture of him, she won't even take pictures of us and him when we are around him. i never heard her once say like grandma and grandpa is here to see you. to the baby. i feel she is ashame of us, and disappointed in us being her son grandparetns. my son keep saying no it's not like that, but we need to keep doing this and that. i told my wife i am done. she went as far as wanting me to stop detailing cars for strangers, and doing consulting work for strangers because she think we will allow people just come here andgo through all of our personal stuff. how would you feel ? i had people said take them court. i said no to that. and she won't even speak to us as far as saying hi. this been making depress, since i asked for a picture that was on her page. to me good enough for her page should be good enough for us all of them,
1 response
@SusanLee (1920)
• United States
14 Aug 08
That is really odd, it sounds like your daughter-in-law has some issues, what those issues could be I don't have a clue. As far as the pictures go, when you go to visit, or they come to visit, couldn't you just have a camera handy and take your own pictures. Sounds like she is about as stingy as they come when it comes to pictures, you have no idea why she is like that?
• United States
14 Aug 08
well that is how we gotten the pictures we have. but we don't get to see the baby much at all. here's been three weeks, and they live like 15 min away. but always got time to see her family everweekend
@SusanLee (1920)
• United States
14 Aug 08
I think the only one that is going to be able to resolve this is your son. He needs to just step-up and tell her to send you pictures, or better yet send them himself. He also needs to tell her he's going to take the baby to visit you all, she can come along or she can keep her butt at the house, either way, they're going visiting at your house. He's going to have to do something about it.