Does anyone else find it politically incorrect?

@sharie16 (2212)
Philippines
August 15, 2008 3:38am CST
I have this former boss before who calls us, all female employees by terms of endearment (sweetheart, dear, honey, darling...etc..)...have you also encounter that? how do you find it?
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
15 Aug 08
It all depends on the context in which it is used. There is a big difference between using these names as a term of endearment and using them to be derogatory. I see no issue with it if it a show of genuine affection. It is also far more understandable for say a middle aged man to do this than a guy in his 20's too. Political correctness sometimes goes too far and some people just need to lighten up. What is worng with greeting someone with "Hello my dear!" surely a statement like this is harmless and has no venom behind it??
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@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
i see your point...and at some point i think i agree with you...
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@fwangaa (3057)
• China
15 Aug 08
i haven't found it,because i am in china. in china,you will not find that case,and you will be ok ,because every body say a little to women,because of the culture. i hope you someday come to china and work at china. you will be respect by every one. i think you also can earn many money as in your country. do you have a msn, my msn is fwanga@hotmail.com, can you add my msn as your friend.
@fwangaa (3057)
• China
15 Aug 08
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@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
i dont have msn...i used yahoo messenger...hmm would help me to find job there at your place? i really like to work from other place since our salary here is too low compared ot other countries...
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
i really appreciate if you could...so is that an hourly rate or what? what job is that? i would love to hear from you if i can possibly work. here's my email: sharie_mjkn2@yahoo.com have a nice day! and thanks in advance! God bless!
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
15 Aug 08
If he does use the terms of endearment to all the employees, he may seem harmless and its best ignored. It also depends on how you view your interpersonal relationship with your boss, in the sense of how important or how much do you think he values you as part of his team. To the people who do mind, I do not see any issue with the word "dear " at all.
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
yes, i think "dear" is more of expression... i just really ignore how my former boss say it, and i should not be bother by that...i think i should have notice the facial expression of my boss whenever he tells that...
@Wizzywig (7847)
15 Aug 08
I think it depends on the person saying it, how well you know them and the tone its said in. However, I think it would be unprofessional to use those terms in front of clients. My current manager is female but both male/female colleagues use the terms love, honey, sweetheart, mate, duck - there's no underlying sexism.
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
yeah,your right,it depends on the person saying it...so my boss do that also, he use that term to all his female employees in front of clients or anybody else, so would that mean being unethical and unprofessional?
@Wizzywig (7847)
15 Aug 08
If the female employees feel uncomfortable or degraded in any way and he's aware of their feelings,then its wrong of him to continue. It depends a lot on the business and situation but I think it would be more professional to address staff by name in front of clients because, even if the staff are ok with it, the client may not be and he could lose business.
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
yeah thats right...i strongly agree with you..its very unprofessional... thanks for sharing some thoughts...Have a nice day! God bless!