Do you believe in corporeal punishment - for your child?
By Amy
@artemis432 (7474)
Abernathy, Texas
August 15, 2008 8:04pm CST
I foundthis article and it was awful:
http://www.landoverbaptist.org/news0303/spanking.html
I usually don't reveal my stance yet in beginning a thread, I like to remain impartial so that I can real answers - hopefully - and then get to continue the "discussion" which is the idea of mylot, thus revealing my opinion. But I can't be neutral about this even for a moment. No study has shown that this brings about healthy, well rounded children!
Here's one thats tongue in cheek: http://www.thebestpageintheuniverse.net/c.cgi?u=beat
As for it being in the bible "spare the rod spoil the child - this is erroneous -
http://www.naturalchild.org/jan_hunt/tenreasons.html
Tell me how you feel about this.
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@sugarplum9084 (1771)
• United States
16 Aug 08
The first article you posted, the only one I looked at since I am a little busy, is purely satire. If you look at the other pages on their side bar you will see that it is more evident as a joke. I thought it was kind of funny because I knew it was a joke because of all the exaggeration. The article actually makes fun of crazy Christians and interpreted bible quotes, and overall making fun of those who beat their kids. It was not meant to be taken seriously.
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@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
16 Aug 08
Perhaps not - but how do you feel on the subject? You'll find the second to be tongue in cheek as well if you have time to look at it.
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@angusthethird (515)
• United States
16 Aug 08
I'll whup my kid in a minute. I ask him/her not to do something, they do it, it's on to the bathroom!!! I am not going to play.
When showing them how to do something their mom and I want them to do...by the first or second time, they need to have it done right. And in a timely fashion. Or they'll get the belt. Or the switch.
You see, I want them to develop into good citizens that can keep a job, a marriage, and to stay out of trouble, who respond respectfully and appropriately to authority, whether it's the teacher, the pastor, the parents, or the police. Or later on in life, the big bad boss at work.
Is that too much to ask?
Angus Koolbreeze--who believes the old adage, "Spare the Rod, Spoil the Child!
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
16 Aug 08
Its funny because my family and those families we know have always raised our children without beating them and we were well behaved, and well rounded and grew up to raise our kids the same way. We're all productive citizens. Successful in life. We respect authority including our parents and act appropriately.
We're not spoiled and neither are our kids. I do appreciate your honesty though. And appreciate you contributing to my topic. And you did so in a respectful manner. Which I always appreciate it. :)
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@drknlvly6781 (6246)
• United States
18 Aug 08
Even though I agree with you about the first article, but kinda laughed about the second, I have to say that I am a well-rounded person that came from a family that used corporeal punishment! When used in the right manner, IMO it does help rear a child if that is what you believe in. The way discipline broke down in my house was such:
1st offense-Talked to
2nd offense-Revoked Privileges
3rd offense-Punishments or extra chores
4th offense-Physical punishment.
I believe if used in this manner, then it can be beneficial. The whole point of the matter is not to get to the 4th offense, and if you do, you deserve to be punished in that manner. Corporeal is the last resort, but it is an option. If your kids are hard-headed enough to get to that point, they need it.

@drknlvly6781 (6246)
• United States
18 Aug 08
Right, I condone it, but only when used correctly. Resorting to it at the wrong time or too often is just as bad as no punishment at all in my book.
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
18 Aug 08
Sounds to me, from your answer you've thought about it, plus you see how using in conjunction with these other methods was effective.
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
18 Aug 08
But many parents resort to it first. And when they see how quick it works for many individuals - esp. those with anger issues - it esculates.
In a way, the way it worked in your house showed respect. You talk to them let them know its wrong, and like a work place, let them know further consequences. What happens to young people at work? They get talked to, and told if the behaviiour continues they will get written up. After this, if it continues, either they get fired or they get leave without pay and then they get fired.
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