LOVE is all you need?????????????

August 16, 2008 5:53pm CST
Hey i am married with a 3 year old son but desparate for another baby. Extremely broody and its making my husband look more and more attractive by the day LOL. We aren't really in the position for me to be off on maternity leave as my husband makes less money than me and we agree that i could nt cope with going back very quickly and him being maincarer. Also childcare costs are a killer more i work the less money i take home! So question is IS LOVE ALL YOU Need??
2 responses
@fwangaa (3058)
• China
16 Aug 08
yes,too many persons don't have enough time and money to birth,and they will birth too late around me. the money is not the important things in the world ,but without it ,you will do nothing.
16 Aug 08
Thanks for the comment. Time is not so much my issue but money definately is!! You are right when you say without money there is nothing.
@phisha84 (286)
• United States
17 Aug 08
to me that is absolutely wrong....money is not important....it makes you greedy, want uneccisary things, and be careless...... People should learn to buy what is needed and then treat themselves every now and then......instead of loosing their head over a pair of "cute" shoes or a purse. yes when you buy pretty and sexy items....you feel what you buy....I buy cheap cute things and go to rummage sales and I feel good just being me. I have went and bought me clothes one time this year, they were on sale, and i plan on wearing them until they fall apart. There's alot that you can do that doesn't require money and you can still have tons of fun..... I play with my kids, we color and paint, and play games. I have a huge garden and green house so i save money that way also. I enjoy cooking and just sitting down with my boyfriend and watching a movie or just talking, goofing around. I don't see the point of 50 dollar jeans, shirts, clothes...I don't see the point of fancy restraunts, I dont see the point of "name brands" either. Its all a scam for more money, the more money you have the less worries right? Thats totally wrong, yeah you don't care but then you show others how not to care and be impractical......you don't have to live large to be happy. If everyone would just take the time to realize how much unneccisary stuff they do America wouldn't be going to bla
@phisha84 (286)
• United States
17 Aug 08
Honestly....there is alot of help out there...I am a single disabled mother of two, I get no help from their father....i live off of 500 bucks amonth and it is soooo hard. I don't go shopping, i don't wear make-up, i don't go out to eat or to the movies.....but I don't miss any of it, my angels make up for all that....so if you wanna have another baby i thing would be cut back on somethings, don't splurge, do more at home activities and be creative....popcorn and a movie..... good luck
17 Aug 08
My little boy and i do things that dont cost anything as it is. THis week we have been to the public library, built a den, painted get well cards, baked banana cake and been to the park 5 times. Money for entertainment is not the problem its that if dont work i.e immediately after having a baby then we cant eat! I live in Britain and things are tight just now cost of living has gone through the roof. Gas as you call it is currently $2.50-$3 PER LITRE. I TRY TO CUT BACK AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE BUT I DONT SEE US MOVING FORWARD.