What Signs Should You Look For To Find Out If Your Husband / Boyfriend Is a GAY?
By wendhieRN
@wendhieRN (754)
United States
August 17, 2008 4:12am CST
i have this friend of mine who after 7 years of marriage has never gotten pregnant. the relationship that she and her husband shared used to be smooth sailing not until when my friend wanted a baby but the guy just didn't want even if they are entering the age of high risk pregnancy/conception. my friend got so upset as her husband went out of town for a week but unfortunately he was seen by some acquaintances dining out together with another guy and seemed so happy as if he has no wife waiting for him to come home. as maliciously as people think, rumors had spread that the husband is probably a gay. so sad...
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
17 Aug 08
That's not fair to the husband. He may have just wanted to confide in someone his gender. The benefit of the doubt should be given. How do you know that he is gay, well she should just ask him directly. That would be the surest and shortest way to do it - but the bluntest of course. She can just observe him.
@wendhieRN (754)
• United States
17 Aug 08
i advised to confront her husband but the problem is she doesn't want to because she is afraid he'll admit it that he is one. i even told her "the truth shall set her free" although she may get hurt too but the point is at least she will not grow old waiting for answers and the husband himself will not get tired of dealing with too much pretensions if that is really the case. well anyway, thanks for sharing.
@rsa101 (41135)
• Philippines
17 Aug 08
Although that is particularly weird for a husband who does not think of having a child. But I think that is not a sign of being a gay. The situation where he was seen to be with a guy could be an innocent meet up with an old acquaintance and should not be taken as being gay. I think what the wife should do is ask his hubby why he still doesn't want to have a child. I guess the best source of reason is from huis husband not from someone else story.
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