Incest, why does this happen?

@djoyce71 (2511)
Philippines
August 17, 2008 6:08am CST
It is such a sensitive and frightening issue. I have read and heard true stories about child abuse and incest. I really pity those children who suffer from this painful experience. Can you imagine the damaging effect of these on a child victim. How could a father or a relative do these things and how could some mothers tolerate this kinds of activity?
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4 responses
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
17 Aug 08
Hi! Its really sad for incest does happens in some families. Usually in families who has relatives living with them, uncles in particular. Incest I think is a sickness in the society. Probably the reason why some mothers can tolerate this kind of abuse is because they are ashamed of having experienced it by the family. It is a defect in the family and they don't want others to know about it. Sometimes mothers are also afraid of their husbands thats why they let their hubbies do away with the abuse. I think mothers who tolerate incest in the family are insane. They don't love their child. They love themselves more and they lack respect for others and have no dignity more than those who commit incest. Ciao!
@djoyce71 (2511)
• Philippines
17 Aug 08
Yes. Really insane. Glad you responded iskayz. Good evening.
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@djoyce71 (2511)
• Philippines
17 Aug 08
I can't help but question why this happens. Poor children.
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@granmeme (162)
• United States
17 Aug 08
Yes. on all accounts incest is a sick and degrading illness. I am not sure if their is a cure or how to handle it. I am personally familiar with two families that suffered from incest and I cannot begin to understand the Mother tolerating this. I think a lot of the problem was their were six children in each family and these where poor families and the Mothers may have felt that they could not take care of the kids and had to stay in the marriage. I know this is not a viable excuse but it may of been what they felt. In all cases the abused children have had troubled lives some have handled it better than others and some worse. I would think it would depend on how a person came to terms with it or had gotten any counseling. I know in one of the families there has been addiction problems. In both situations the marriages of the parents have been very rocky but they stayed together, both couples have separated many times but always go back together. For myself had my husband touched one of my children I would never want to lay eyes on him again and certainly not want him touching me.
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@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
17 Aug 08
Incest is the worst thing that could happen to a young girl in the hands of her own father. It's really gross and very damaging to a child's moral up bringing. Some kids will never recover at all. And that is the saddest thing to happen.
@djoyce71 (2511)
• Philippines
17 Aug 08
Good evening lyzabelle. I appreciate your response. I hope mothers of these children help in solving this problem and not tolerate it. Maybe, they're just too afraid to tell or avoiding the embarrassment.
• United States
23 Sep 08
The real question I think you are trying to get at isn't whether or not incest is right or wrong but you are trying to identify the wrongs of pedophilia. Some fathers and mothers are simply incapable of parenting and are sick in the head.
• United States
17 Aug 08
I really don't understand either how this could happen. It is something that is really hard to get over. And it is a hard thing for a child to live with and deal with for the rest of their lives.