Life after marriage : : Pleasant or Painful
By atibas
@atibas (11)
Nepal
August 17, 2008 6:11am CST
Marriage is a ceremony famous world wide despite caring about the cast, region, religion ...............
Some people think marriage is very much important part of our life as it gives us plenty of happiness........ it teaches us the ways of life.......it gives the pleasure that one can not find with any other relationships..........it links you with another world and people.......more people are there to love you..........you get an entirely new life after you get married..........
in the meanwhile......other think that marriage is a social custom made compulsory so that one would not dare to go away from this............and the problems created by it........marriage in their words is.......only COMPROMISE.......that never lets you live for urself..........it ruins your life...........and destroys your happiness....... you merely live for others ........when you get married.........
Please suggest me what you think of marriage........................ and LIFE AFTER MARRIAGE.............
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4 responses
@Sophia2007 (40)
• United States
18 Aug 08
Marriage is a blessed union between man woman and God. True happiness can be found if all parties involved give them selves completely to the others.
@tapnaroy12 (875)
• India
17 Aug 08
Hi atibas
If you think that life is beautiful, then it's always beautiful. yes, to me marriage is important and it's a very delicate relationship. Both the partners need to equally participate to make the marriage work. For me despite, some usual misunderstandings and occasional problems, it's really beautiful.
I know some people are not as lucky as me. I feel sorry for them. Certainly few of them think that marriage is a compromise while to others its simply doesn't work.
So it differs person to person.
@jaypeemanuel (1005)
• Philippines
17 Aug 08
Well your second paragraph doesn't tell about marriage. Marriage does not bring despair anyone, but the person or the couple involved are the ones responsible for making their marriages empty. I tell you, I'd been married for a few years and I can tell you that it is something more than happiness. IT IS FULFILLMENT. Sorry to say, but your second paragraph implies a selfish motive. We are not supposed to be happy alone, but to be happy in serving others.
Sorry If i have offended you, but no puns intended. No flames.. ^_^
Peace out...
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
17 Aug 08
Life after marriage can only be pleasant if both of
the parties truly love each other. There's a peace
and harmony in marriage if the husband is capable
of providing the necessities of the family like, a
very own house, stable job or business and a strong
mental and emotional support to the wife.
