i want girls honest opinion

August 17, 2008 10:07am CST
what is the first thing you look for in a boyfriend? what would you do if you feel in love with a guy that was really ugly but you were to embaresed to admit it?
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@lvaldean (1612)
• United States
17 Aug 08
When I was dating the first thing I always looked for was an engaging smile, one that lit up an entire face. I always also look for good grooming. He didn't have to be a fashion star, but he had to demonstrate good personal grooming habits! Hair combed, teeth brushed, daily bathing, hands washed after bathroom breaks, shaving or at least triming of facial hair. As for clothing - well lets just say clean clothing that appeared to have been taken out of closets and drawers rather than off the floor. Pants that were not being held up by a prayer. The next thing I looked for was good manners. I also always looked for someone who was able to carry on a conversation about the world around him. Meaning he read books, read magazines about the world, read newspapers, watched more than the sports channel. Sense of humor, critical. I never mind sarcasm, but a mean person would be out the door in a minute. Humor has to be pointed inward as much as outward. Ugly? What is that? Beauty is the outward of expression of spirit. Each of the men who have had a place in my life have been either Ugly or Beautiful because of their spirit not because they are pleasing to the eye of the world. Some have also been very handsome, some not so much. Didn't matter to me they were pleasing to me and I am the only one that matters.
17 Aug 08
that makes alot of sense i never thought about that far
• Malaysia
17 Aug 08
Honestly as a girl, I will look at the his face first because the face will mkae you fall in love with. But that is not the point because if he hensome but having a bad habit. He is not worth it. I will look the way he tallk and treat me. Most importantly, he know how to make me happy.. Dont worry boy, almostly prettygirl will marry with ugly but kind of hearted man. Trust me. If she does not want you dont force her. At least you can be her friend and maybe she is not good enough for you..
17 Aug 08
ok but wait hold on i am a female lol i just wanted to know what other girls thought
• Japan
17 Aug 08
i always look for common grounds. let's say i want someone who's smart enough to have a good conversation, likes adventures, taking faith seriously. if he/she likes the same thing, we have something common to keep us going then the rest is just a bonus. it's not wrong to like someone who's good looking but IT SHOULDN'T be on the top of your list. you'll be looking on his face whenever you see him, so i guess that counts but as i have said, it shouldn't be your top priority. it's like having someone you like to converse with but have halitosis. maybe someone who's not too good looking nor too ugly. someone who's just average, i guess. by the way, how do you define 'ugly?' it sure does make a difference how you see and define ugliness.
• United States
20 Aug 08
I have dated ugly, and I didn't care. To me, all I care about is height. The shortest guy I dated was 5'4" or 5'5". Never again will I do that. Talk about Back problems. Unattractive guys are cooler because they are nice and caring.
@karakiks (42)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
when i first see a guy, i always look at how he carries himself. and of course, a huge factor is his physical appearance, because it'll be infatuation, and when you get to know him better, and know his personality, you'll be in love.
• United States
22 Aug 08
i look for trust in a boy. its so hard to date someone thats u cant trust if u really love them then it dnt matter wat they look like. i sure wud still love the person.
• United States
17 Aug 08
If you've gotten to the point where you're in love with someone, why would you care if he's ugly? If you're unattracted to him, that's one thing, but I doubt you'd be in love with someone if you didn't have some sort of attraction. My guy isn't a super model, but he's gotten increasingly more attractive, to me, since we've been together. I don't want people considering my looks first, so I try not to consider someone else's looks first.
• United States
17 Aug 08
What I had looked for in a guy and what I found in my husband was mainly his personality and if he could make me laugh.