I'm going out with my ex... is it ok?

New Zealand
August 17, 2008 11:33am CST
I've been in touch with my two exes lately... well technically I only have two... my most recent I'm not sure if I could say she's my ex too because we were never officially together... anyway... I plan to go out with my other exes... well the first one I haven't seen her for about three years already but we do talk and keep in touch... while the other one... she used to be my neighbor but since she moved out of town we barely see each other... and now she works near my school so we're planning to see each other... I've also been in touch with a few other people I was linked with previously... but anyway... here's the deal... I still love that girl who I was never officially together with... we still see each other once a week at school and we still talk... we still go out at times... mostly with our group of friends... and I admit I'm still not over her... I still love her and I'm still hurting... but we're through for about six months now... so is it ok if I go out with my exes or do you think it's bad for me and bad for them? please share your views...
1 response
• United States
17 Aug 08
Well sometimes previous problems tend to show up once more when you get back with someone from your past, but if you feel okay with it, and she feels okay with it, second chances can happen and work out. Just keep in mind that the chances of getting hurt are greater, but it's all both of your choices, and perhaps you can fix things and everything can be better between both of you. There's no written rule that you can't be with your exes, it's just all up to you two, so do what you feel is the best for you, you can't lose too much out of this.
• New Zealand
17 Aug 08
hmm.. thanks I'll bear that in mind...