How do you handle it if your partner has a kid already?

You are in tough situation my dear friend,if you really love this guy.It is not easy to go away.Just ask yourself this question my dear friend, "Do you really love this guy?" or you can leave this guy because he has a kid.If he has a kid before he even met you and he told you everything about it, then you should not have any complaints.It is not your fault, neither his nor the baby is responsible.You cannot hold anyone responsible other than the circumstances.If you truly love him and respect him,you should also try to accept this baby.I know it will be difficult, no woman can accept it.It needs a heart of an extra ordinary woman to take such decision.Have you ever met that child?If your answer is big "no" then I suggest you better go and see him.Maybe when you see that baby,you will start liking him.Every women has a heart of a mother.However,if he had kept you in dark until recently,then I say, he didn't do good to you.You have every right to know everything about him and his life in detail including this baby.I feel that you are confused and lost right now.You are unable to take decision.At the same time you are very upset and unsure of your relationship with him.My dear friend,you should take sometime out for yourself and think.I don't want you to sit and regret later.Whatever decision you may take,think carefully.You can even end this relationship,but tomorrow you should not feel bad about it.Being the father of two year old baby does not make him a criminal.If he is good to you and you also love him dearly, then my friend you should give him a chance.Take any decision but always consider your happiness and future.Goodluck!

before he met you,if he has a son,then he should not fall in love with you becoz he got a son he should not fall in love again.after you met him,when your relationship was going good,and then you found out that he had a son,ofcorse this is much more wrong,becoz loving you at one side,he made relationship with the other girl.you are cheated.leave him and be happy.if you marry him he may cheat you again

Does your boyfriend had his little boy before he met you or relationship with you? I don't think you should feel cheated if you know in the begining that he has his litlle boy already! But if he din't tell you about his kid maybe you should! And if you love your boyfriend I think you should accept his litlle boy. Good luck!