what would end a relationship even if you forgave the person eventually?

@MZKUMA (705)
United States
August 18, 2008 12:54am CST
For me, I can forgive you and it doesn't mean I have to stay in a relationship. Mental or physical abuse....PLEASE! I'm out. I may forgive infidelity once. After that, I'll kick myself for trusting him again. The things you forgive when you're in love.
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@rbailey83 (1400)
• Canada
18 Aug 08
well, and not saying it doesn't happen to guys, but im a guy so i have never experienced physical abuse, but i don't think that anyone experienceing it should stay in the relationship, get out before things go too far, don't believe the im sorry i'll never do it again, from what i've seen, once it happens, it will happen again. for me, if someone cheats on me or constantly hides and lies about things throughout the relationship, that will end it. There are lots of smaller things, that if continue and never stop, even though you've talked about it, those would end it as well. i can forgive someone of almost anything, but just because i forgive them does not mean i will continue a relationship with them.
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@MZKUMA (705)
• United States
18 Aug 08
^5 to you Rbaily83. I agree with your response (thanks by the way). Forgiving doesn't always mean the relationship continues. Forgiveness allows a individual to move on with their life without any hard feeling or baggage.
@rbailey83 (1400)
• Canada
18 Aug 08
definately, and it's not going to kill you to forgive them, the only time i couldn't forgive somoene is if they did something to someone else, that's not for me to forgive
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