crossdressing

Mexico
August 18, 2008 1:58am CST
Ladies, what would your reaction be if you knew, found out, or were told by your bf, that he likes to wear feminine lingerie?
9 responses
Oneironaut
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
18 Aug 08
I would be freaked out, but I love my boyfriend, so I would work through it.
fcrawford
@fcrawford (6)
• Mexico
21 Aug 08
Thanks sketch, so at this precise moment and time it is something you do not agree with? How would you assimilate it?
fcrawford
@fcrawford (6)
• Mexico
17 Sep 08
Hi Sketch, you probably won´t believe this, but most of crossdressers are NOT gay, on the contrary they are straight men. Reason? Straight men love women and they crossdress to be closer to them, whilst gay men want to be only with men, and despise all that is femenine. Thank you for your insight, although. Have a nice day.
Oneironaut
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
22 Aug 08
I don't disagree with it, I'm not against it. I just assume most of the guys who crossdress are homosexual and I kinda want my boyfriend to be straight since I'm a girl and all.
ShellyB
@ShellyB (5241)
• United States
18 Aug 08
I will be ok with it. I like to be in a honest relationship and if that is what he wants to wear then fine, I have at least a pair of boxers and no one raises their eyebrows.
fcrawford
@fcrawford (6)
• Mexico
18 Aug 08
Thanks Shelly, it is an honest and refreshing answer!
ShellyB
@ShellyB (5241)
• United States
18 Aug 08
wells thanks for telling me that :D
jammyt
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
17 Sep 08
I would find it weird and I would start thinking if I want to stay in a relationship where my bf actually competes with me and what I wear. LOL!Imagine if we had a kid.. how would I explain this to him/ her?
lyzabelle
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
22 Aug 08
Oh, that is very odd for me. Why would my boyfriend choose to wear a feminine lingerie? If his reason is acceptable enough I will understand. I just hope he is not gay,heheh,lol
Dragonofgold
@Dragonofgold (509)
• Canada
22 Aug 08
cross dressers are often not gay. They just really really like to sometimes wear a woman's clothes. I like to wear men's clothes sometimes. I think I look sexy in a vest and tie and men's hat.
fluffnflowers
@fluffnflowers (1594)
• United States
18 Aug 08
I'd be puzzled how he managed to hide it for so long! Really, I'd probably get over it pretty quickly. If wearing female undies makes him happy and that's the only complaint I have, I'd consider myself to be very lucky.
Natara
@Natara (169)
• Canada
18 Aug 08
Strangely enough, I might think it's kinda cute o.O He can do what he wants (he being my boyfriend) as long as it doesnt get out of hand :)
fcrawford
@fcrawford (6)
• Mexico
21 Aug 08
Thanks Natara, your point of view hits bullseye!
Dragonofgold
@Dragonofgold (509)
• Canada
22 Aug 08
I personally would not care much, but I also would not like to see it. It would change my perception of my husband's personality if I found it out, honestly. I would also be angry if he kept it a secret and I found out that he had bee keeping it on the sly. Not because of the cross-dressing, but because he felt he couldn't tell me. That would indicate to me that our relationship was not strong enough for him to trust me with his real self. Keeping secrets is what I would be upset with, notthe satin and lace. Honestly.
rkrish
@rkrish (3003)
• India
17 Sep 08
HI Fcraw, I am man but still making here crossdressing already nothing for ladies i believe as they started wearing all the men dressess, but for men its fate not to be on open as it goes differently so till the men cant but women can is cross dressing
yeani28
@yeani28 (34)
• Philippines
17 Sep 08
i would laugh my heart out. i could not imagine wearing my undies. but u know what i know someone whod rather wear panties than briefs. and take note, he is a cadet soldier. ahaha seriously, that would be a turn off. but it would not last that long, *if you really love him youd accept him right?