love after marriage is not being true, most of the time in early stage !!!
By rkrish
@rkrish (3003)
India
August 18, 2008 3:14am CST
i have seen and moved with many people, really the love before marriage is so strong on themselves and well understanding, and they lie little and possessive so much.
but incase of love started after marriage is not so,,,,and sometimes making fool of the others, why so
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@vidhyavini (6111)
• India
18 Aug 08
I don't agree with you. Its all just because of understanding each other. You have seen many love marriages to be successful. Have you ever seen them when they were in love? There will be so many fights, misunderstanding and all. Day by day it gets changed. You will learn what adjusting means. Thats why they feel successful after marriage. Just wait. Try to adjust. Understand what your partner really needs. Then proceed. Happy mylotting. Have fun.
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@olivemai (4738)
• United States
20 Aug 08
I do not know why!
It is very interesting to find out.
All I know is that people get comfortable after being together for a time, and they are also used to a certain way of life.
Maybe we should not ever get married,
that is all I can say after being married for twenty-five years!
We end up being too familiar with each other and ruining the relationship.
that and the children tend to cause problems by coming between the adults.
At least you may have a household with extended family?
I would think that would help keep the marriage fresh! 








