Is Kissing Cheating?
By dantakum
@dantakum (404)
Nigeria
August 19, 2008 8:58am CST
You be thing of this question too,i find it diffecult to know if it's cheating when locking lips with another person does it make you any less loyal to each other.for me i guess it's just kissing and that's all means nothing to me but i would like to know your views .
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5 responses
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
20 Aug 08
If you are single and kissing a good friend with no intention and the other person also takes it normally and not the other way around,then I guess it means nothing,but when you have someone in your life and you kiss that other person be it just a friendly kiss,it doesn't sound good to me and you dare not try.What if your loving partner does this in front of you?Would you like it?Can you accept it?Won't you be jealous?Will you take it normally?You should also consider this things.You may not find kissing a friend that serious but your partner may not approve it.
@empowerall (6)
• United States
19 Aug 08
Yepper, especially if you have to ask. And as far as loyalty, you had none from the start. Otherwise you wouldnt have kissed. I say stay single until youre ready for the committment. You cant cheat till you have a committment, youre just dating right. If your married then heck yea, you've cheated. Because out of the heart the mouth "kieats". On the other hand now that you have kissed. Forgive yourself, ask for forgiveness, and work it out (IF MARRIED) IF NOT! Keep tying till you get it right, and good luck to all parties of your experiment.
@Meljep (1666)
• United States
19 Aug 08
If you are giving your emotion away to another person, then yes you are cheating. That kiss should have been given to your wife, not another woman.
Spice up your marriage, work on that. You will find that will take a lot of time, but will be more rewarding than trying to make the next conquest.
@todwalrohit (116)
• India
19 Aug 08
it completely depends on the person you are kissing to, and of course your intention, if you and your partner have good understanding and you know each other very well, then of course its not a Cheating.
but you should be in your limit and your partner must know about your activity.
because in love/married life, understanding and loyalty is very much important, and if you have good understanding and loyal towards your partner, than nothing is cheating. but you should know your limit and must not go beyond it.
Enjoy!!!
@snowy22315 (171153)
• United States
19 Aug 08
I think Dr. Phil said it the best if it is something you wouldnt do with your partneer staniding right there than it is cheating or being disloyal in some way.
I think my hubby would get pretty upset if he saw me kissing somebody else, particulalry if I looked like I was enjoying it. Relatives are an exception of course.
