stupid cousin

@phisha84 (286)
United States
August 19, 2008 10:27am CST
Ugh I am sooo iritated with my cousin who is just a few months older than me. I want to beat her in her stupid stupid head. Ok here's whats going on my 23 year old cousin has five kids!! She first got pregnant when she was 15 years old, she stole my gay uncles boyfriend.....yeah gross! She accidently got pregnant. She had the little girl for a little while, and DCFS came and took her way...... She got pregnant again soon after that by some really old dude by accident....how? Because she was shacked up with some bar owner that was GIVING her money..... That little boy she doesn't see and he lives with his father. The next pregnancy was on purpose supposibly......that little boy is with her and her boyfriend..... She broke up with that guy.....cheated on him and got pregnant.......6 months along miscarried... Got back with baby boy daddy again oh I'm sorry I'm gonna change, got pregnant again miscarried again 4 months along...... Now Again she's pregnant by some dude she supposibly married....and she's due in december! She's an alcoholic and meth head and god only knows what else..... I say the state needs to give her parenting classes, make her get a job, test her for drugs randomly, and take all of her kids! This is bull crap, what is wrong with her! She even goes as low as stealing soda cans from old people that were saving them to recycle them.......ugh for real I don't know whats lower than that. Why in the heck is the goverment just letting her run around with her legs open.........I hate people like her, its one thing to have kids and teach them right from wrong and love them, and be a positive person around them........ I will never have anything to do with her again.
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@tina2696 (127)
• United States
19 Aug 08
Thats horrible. Some people should not be allowed to reproduce. Its not fair to the kids. I hope they are happy, healthy and with a family that loves them.
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@phisha84 (286)
• United States
20 Aug 08
I know Kaitlynn and the oldest boy is with very loving families, as for the two other boys they are with her waiting for their sister to pop out. sigh.
@sudalunts (5526)
• United States
19 Aug 08
Yes, she sounds like a really loose person, and at 23, all the pregnacies she has had. She is playing Russian Roulette with her body and life. It is so sad for the children that she produced, with a mother like her, they reall do not have a chance for a good productive life. Maybe, you are right, the childre she does have with her should be removed and put into a functional family. She needs more than parenting classes, she first need to know how to deal with herself, to find out what is wrong with her that she makes such foolish choices. I pray that the children will be okay.
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@phisha84 (286)
• United States
19 Aug 08
thanks I do believe that the kids will need it. The oldest girl I think her name is spelled Kaitlynn. but she is with a very good family, and Kaitlynn told them that she hates her mommy and never waited to see her. One of the boys that is with his dad, I assume he's doing well. I just dont understand people, why people don't have that unconditional love, the love that will make them fight for their kids, and protect them....how can people not feel that way.......If anything happened to my two daughter I don't know what I'd do I'd go insane......
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@dexterous21 (1180)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
Oh! I pity her. I think she has a psychological disorder. I think she needs counsellings. But of course, if I am in your situation I will be very angry, too.
@gr8life (6252)
• Malaysia
20 Aug 08
Hello phisha84, Your cousin is a real monster! I pity the kids. She can open up her legs for as long as she wants but please take a precaution-just don't get pregnant. She is really irresponsible and I don't blame you for not liking her at all. How about other family members? They are tired of her too? She needs help obviously...
@phisha84 (286)
• United States
20 Aug 08
Yeah grandma and grandpa disowned her, they have no part of her life and will not speak to her, her mother still treats her very well, but she needs to kick her daughters butt.....my parents and sisters don't have anything to do with her either.....Everyone does get pictures of the kids every now and then because we asked to still be apart of their lives we see kaitlynn very seldom, but haven't seen the oldest boy, but still get a letter with the pic saying he's doing great. we know nothing of the two boys that live with my cousin....I would of loved to be part fo the kids lives but maybe when they get older and want questions and wanna know us....then would be the time.
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• United States
20 Aug 08
I agree her behavior is irresponsible. But you don't want the government to step in. If you do then say goodbye to privacy and liberty. You should tell her to get her tubes tied or something. Does she even use birth control? The best thing to do is just leave her alone and let her make her own mistakes. If she keeps this up she might end up breaking the law and going to jail. She can't get pregnant in an all female prison.
@bbjwlsn (263)
• United States
20 Aug 08
Hi phisha84, how are you doing? Let's face it; there are scummy people in this world. I do think that people like this have psychological problems. However, they should get help for those problems, and not bring poor, innocent children into this atmosphere. Lower than stealing soda cans from old people? I would say bringing all these children into her kind of world would rate a lot lower on the totem pole than stealing soda cans from old people. She sounds like a parasite to me. If she wants to live this kind of lifestyle, she should at least use birth control, preferably the permanent kind. I really have no sympathy for anybody who is going to continue living like this.