marriage

I have been married for 3 years now and we are just coming up to our 6 years anniversary of meeting - and yes we still celebrate that too!! Finances and lack of them are in every serious relationship whether married or not, there is a bit more trust and security if you are married, but if the realtionship is strong enough you can get through anything - and arguments are normal. It was a struggle to get here - I met a guy who was frightened of marriage because he knew of some people including his brother who had marriages that fell apart. I explained that they obviously weren't with the right people and you can't not do something yourself because of what people say. I had moved 450 miles from my family to be with him and I wasn't giving up without a good try. He eventually realised that it was worth taking a chance on. We now also have a beautiful daughter who is almost two. Dare I say it but he wasn't sure if he wanted children either.Now look at us, we are still very happy and we are definitely soul mates.

Lol, I totally agree. I have been married for 4 mnths now, but our marriage has been going great so far. I know people say that the first 5 yrs are the worst, but well the worst hasn't hit me yet. I have even gotten people telling me and told him before we got married, don't do it. Well, things have gotten alot better after marriage. I agree that they just haven't found the right person and they don't know what they are talking about. And yes couples will argue, but I think that the really strong couples will work on it no matter what.

I have been married to my soulmate for 8 years now and we are very happy and still in love with each other. Yes we have little fights every now and then but the fun part is making up. I know I have married the right person and I don't care what people say about my marriage. Now I do know some people that shouldn't get married. If you have trouble staying together before you get married why waste your money on a wedding?

My husband and I have been married for almost 7 months. He's a few years older than me, but we're a young couple. There are moments when I think "You are getting on my last nerve" lol. I know he thinks the same thing sometimes. But being married is really great. I have such a love for my husband, there's nothing that can happen that could change that. I really believe that. We're also expecting. We had only been married for a couple of months, and then I got pregnant. We're happy, we're blessed.

I met my husband when I was 17 and we have been together for 6 years and married only 2 but we have lived together the whole time, anyways everytime someone knew we were gettin married they'd say we were too young and we were digging our own grave. I agree with you the people who say not to get married just aren't happy themselves, because now we have 2 kids and get along great!!