Help me here - - cells, pagers - totally accessible - yet no answers!

@coffeebreak (17797)
United States
August 19, 2008 12:57pm CST
Okay, so help me here. I admit I still linger in the 20th century on many things - but this one not only has me stumped, it also has me very annoyed. Cell phones, pages, voice maill, leave messages, message machines - all for what....total 24/7/365 access to a person. Why do you have these things? Same reason, so you can be accessible 24.7.365 to all your friends, family and business issues etc. So... with such total access - why it is that when I call a phone number - no one there so I have to leave a message. I call a cell phone - no one answers and I have to leave a voice mail. I page someone, they dont return call. So...why is it that everyone wants to be totally accessible to everyone all the time, yet is constantly UNaccessible on all modes of contact??? I just grips me that I can't call a number nad someone pick up! I know people are busy, but since they have several ways to be contacted, come on - if you are so busy you can't answer any of your modes of contact, why have them all??? Just drives me nuts!! I grew up with one phone - at home. Period. I was grew up just fine, I raised my kids just fine. Now that there is so much available, I"m not against progress, but if it doesn't work...why have it?
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@arkaf61 (10881)
• Canada
21 Aug 08
LOL I have thought the same thing myself. Cell phones, pagers, and all that stuff are communication tools, but much more than that, they seem to be status indicators. It's psychological, really. You have to have one... or two or the one with more features in the marked because everyone has one... or two. But it's not to be accessible, not necessarily. It's because... well everyone has one.. or two :) Sure they're really convenient and come in handy because at the same time, people are using them as a social tool. In their own terms, not necessarily to pick up when it's us :) I"m rambling, but I'm tired, I'll try to make more sense tomorrow :)
@coffeebreak (17797)
• United States
21 Aug 08
No rambling - you are right! Everyone has one so everyone has to have one! I have one cause my daughter got me one and put me on her plan cause I have her child often and she wanted me to have it for emergencies, but as needed too. I have had it ring while I was doing something and didn't answer it and people look at me and say "aren't you going to answer that?" I's say "No, I'm busy right now, I'll call them back".... I do that as I REALLY hate to be dealing with someone and they STOP dealing with me to answer their phone which means dealing with someone else while I was not only there first, but am standing waiting and wasting my time waiting on them to talk to someone else!!! I"ve been trying to get ahold of someone - called and left msg at home phone, cell and work phone....still haven't called me back!
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@arkaf61 (10881)
• Canada
27 Aug 08
Having a cell phone does not override good manners. It is quite irritating for me when I see people talking and then the cell rings and they pick up the call. Excuse me? Unless it's an emergency or a very important call there is no way someone should do that. Heck I see kids talking and then their cells ring and both are on the cells talking away for a long time and this seems acceptable. Marketing/consumerism at it's best. First they picked on a perfectly sensible product that was to be used for special reasons - an emergency, to be able to make/receive a call where no phone was available, to be able to make a quick call to someone to ask for directions or something, etc. Then they turned it into a must for everyone - it isn't, really. They went further and turned it into a social and status tool. " you're not cool, if you dont' have one" ANd they kept making it more and more ludicrous: music player, camera, game player,downloadable ring tones email, internet, tv..... is this really needed on a..... phone? I am not against technology. I am not close minded. I am not against progress. I just view things clearly, and clearly they're making cell phones an essential gadget in people's lives for their own profit and people can't seem to see it. They're blinded by features :):) My son downloaded a ring tone by mistake - he says LOL - it's was about $3. But do people need their phones to announce a call with some crazy music? Doesn't ring-ring work? Isn't that what phones do? People are getting tricked into all this stuff and they don't even notice how much they're paying for these -non-essential things. Am I rambling again????? LOL
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@coffeebreak (17797)
• United States
27 Aug 08
You're singing my song! I agree with you whole heartedly! I was in the bank the other day - long line, 2 tellers, and this guy gets up to the teller and his phone rings - loudly with a song screaming something or another. He answers it and as I watch I see the teller waiting on him to finish she she can ask him a question, he tells the perons "hold on" and talks to the teller, back to his cell and then I see the teller holding the money shewas giving to him, waiting for him to stop talking and pay attention while she counts out the money like they are required to do. So here I am waiting in line amongst many others, while this guy is yaking on the phone instead of taking care of business. I hate the most.
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@chrislotz (8136)
• Canada
22 Nov 08
Everyone is too busy these days. I think that people need to slow down and enjoy the simple pleasures of life. I always try to answer my phone when it rings but sometimes I am busy and can't answer it. If I am with another person and my phone rings, I don't answer it because I think it is rude to the other person. But if I see it is someone from my immediate family I always answer it no matter what, because it could be very important. But if it is a friend then I wait and call back later when I am alone. I hate talking to a machine so I don't make other people talk to my machine, answering machine, unless I have to. I hate it when I call a business and I can't get a real person on the line. Everything is so technical these days and putting people out of jobs. This is not a good thing for our economy. Everything is changing to technical stuff and people don't talk to each other anymore. It is sad. Alrighty then, talk to you later my friend, Have a good day, Chris
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@coffeebreak (17797)
• United States
23 Nov 08
Yeah, I know what you are saying. If I am doing something and my cell rings, I don't answer it until I am done - I mean, I am busy right now, I have business to attend to - catch ya later. There have been times that I was doing something with another person involved, like at the bank or talking to someone - and it rang and I let it ring and that person asked me "aren't you going to answer it?" I said, "are we done here?", they'd say "no", and I'd say "then I am not going to answer it - I am busy". They looked at me like a calf looking at a new fence! Ther is just simply a time and place for everything. I particularly HATE it when the person in front of me stops what they are doing to yak on the phone nad that makes me have to stand and wait till they are done with their call and then finish their "in line" business. This happens at cash registers and in the bank line all the time!
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
19 Aug 08
Hi coffeebreak, well for me it is quite the opposite. I don't have a cell phone to be available for other people, but rather to make information available to me. I've had my new smart phone for almost 4 months now and if I turned it on and it rang. I'm not sure I would even know how to answer it, because the data functions are really what we got it for. As for communications, e-mail and IM's rule because we can get to them when we get to them and ignore them the rest of the time. If other people don't have the willpower to do this, hey that is their problem. But the technology keeps all sorts of "business" (social and otherwise) transactions archiveed with a text record of what was transacted and then I can find that information when needed and not have to reach into the far recesses of my scrambled brain. Knowledge is power and my smartphone knows just about everything. I guess maybe I am a power phreaque? I admit that once there was a time when the whole concept of relational databases confused and bewildered me, but now I don't know how anyone can live without them. What I like best about the machine as you call it is that it let me throw away that miserable land line phone, along with a host of other costly and/or clunky stuff that used to fill up my life (calculators, notepads, grocery lists, pens, wristwatch, alarm clock, flashlight...YES, I even use my cell phone as a flashlight!) I just don't need those antiquated puppies anymore. Now if I can just find that goldarned CHARGER, rflmao...
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