DISHONESTY is the best policy ...

Canada
August 20, 2008 7:42am CST
or so it would seem to be, to certain people. I'm here at my sister's until Sunday with my daughter, for our second week of summer vacation. I really need to be here, as I've had a lot of additional stress in my life of late. My sister had purchased tickets to a musical, for the two of us and our daughters. The production was yesterday evening, and it was held in a converted barn, in a small resort town north of here. This is something the four of us love to do. We arrived early, so had quite a wait before the show. My daughter and I went to the ladies room, and I removed my family ringwhich I received as a special gift from family and friends, for my 50th birthday, a few years back. It has a gold band with six birthstones, a stone for each of my three stepsons, one for my daughter, my late husband's stone, as well as my own. I personally chose the ring, as my loved ones wanted to be sure it was the one I really wanted. As is my habit, I placed the ring on the vanity to wash my hands. There was only one sink in the small washroom. There were a couple of ladies behind me, so I quickly moved away to the wall dryer, asking my daughter to hold my purse for me, while I dried my hands. We left the washroom, and rejoined my sister and my niece. Approximately 10 minutes laterI noticed that my ring wasn't on my finger. I knew exactly where I'd left it, so asked my daughter to run downstairs to the ladies room, to get it for me. She was gone for longer than I expected. My ring was nowhere to be found. We checked at the box office, the refreshment counter, etc., etc., to see if it'd been turned in. It hadn't! I even suggested to the lady I spoke with, that maybe they could make an announcement about the ring, which they didn't do. My thinking was that maybe if they did this, the person who had taken it would feel guilty, and even turn it in. We left the theatre without my ring, but they do have my name, and my sister's phone number, just in case. I don't expect to ever see my ring again! I know that I'm to blame here too, for my carelessness, as I just did this without even thinking. As well as the value of the ring (not inexpensive), it has a great deal of sentimental meaning for me. I am heartbroken over this. I thank all of you for indulging my rambling here. Have you ever found something of value like this? What did you do with it? If you haven't (yet), what would you do if you found such an item? Have you ever had a treasured piece of jewellery, or something else you valued, lost or stolen? Did you get it back?
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8 responses
• Canada
20 Aug 08
OH MOM!!!! I am so very sorry and that is truly devastating news!! It is the last thing you needed now with everything else going on!!I really don't know what else to say other than I pray that you somehow get it back!! As for me finding anything like this, I would be turning it in in hopes it would get back to the owner! Sending all of my love and hugs to you! ~Heavens~
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• United States
26 Aug 08
OMG I am so sorry for your loss. I bet you are sick about it. I sure home you get it back. Is there any way it could have gone down the drain? I have found something like that and turned it in because it was expensive. I do not feel it is mine to keep because it is so expensive. I have not ever had something so valuable to lose. Good luck. Was it insured? I guess it does not matter because it is the sentimental value of the ring.
@Katlady2 (9904)
• United States
21 Aug 08
Oh hon, I'm so sorry that your ring disappeared like that. I definitely understand your being upset over it. I would be too. I ended up losing my mom's mother's ring, only to find out that my ex boyfriend had somehow ended up with it and he wouldn't give it back unless I met up with him face to face. Considering how abusive he could be, I ended up sacrificing the ring for my safety. I hope that someone turns your ring back in to the theater soon.
@mummymo (23706)
21 Aug 08
Oh sweetheart how awful for you - I understand that the sentimental value of the ring is priceless and I am so sorry it is missing but please do not give up hope! I have found several things that I have handed in where we are or have taken to our local police station and sometimes it takes a little while to get it there. my children would also hand in anything valuable they found - my son proved this when he found a wallet stuffed with money and cards and went straight to the police station with it. Please do not give up hope honey - it may well turn up yet! xxx
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
21 Aug 08
Aww--someonesmom...I do hope you somehow get the ring back to you and the person whomever it was has a conscious and somehow returns it...even if to leave it with the office of the place of where you saw the play. If I ever found a piece of jewelry in some store, or whatever I would take it to the customer service or lost and found office. No fortunately I never had something like this happen to, but my mother did. Exact same scenario. She had bought herself a VERY expensive opal ring...mmmmm....maybe she shouldn't have...I've heard the gemstone opal is bad luck to a person who wears it if it's not their birthstone...I guess in this case it was bad luck. She went to the bathroom, took the ring off to wash her hands and left....same thing....she remembered about it a few minutes later and goes back....it was of course gone. And nope, never got it back
@tlb0822 (1410)
• United States
21 Aug 08
Sorry about the loss of your ring. Hopefully the person who took it feels guilty, and ashamed. Its so awful that there aren't that many honest people left in this world. If i found something such as this, I would turn it into the office, of if I'd of been standing there and seen it I would have told you, you for got it. Its a shame that people can't be honest, and trustworthy any more. I hope it turns up.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
20 Aug 08
Oh no Sweetie I am so sorry that is terrible I know I once lost a necklace that meant the world to me but I never found it again until 3 years later by that time though it did not mean much to me any more I will not go into Details lol that is in the past now If I ever lost the Necklace that I am wearing now and 2 of my Rings I would be heart broken Hugs to you
@Feona1962 (7526)
• United States
20 Aug 08
Awwww...I am so sorry you lost your ring..I hope the person (if someone does have it) feels guilty...I would have thought the two ladies behind you would have seen it and mentioned to you....Unless they didn't see it... One time I was making a phone call at a phone booth...I finished and left..I realized that I had left my wallet on the shelf of the pay phone...I went back to it, but it was gone....I had 100 dollars in 20 dollar bills...but the worst part was I had pictures of my deceased husband holding our daughter...That hurt more than anything else....money can be replaced...but I was just sick over losing the pictures... I sure hope someone will come forward and return your ring....hugs