How many kids you are willing to have?
@sudhajosyula50 (3808)
India
15 responses
@sudhajosyula50 (3808)
• India
20 Aug 08
Is it that much difficult to handle a kid.Then i also want only one kid.I think it would be sufficient for me.
@youngsweetheart (772)
• United States
20 Aug 08
No offense meant whatsoever to you, jollibee, but to answer sudha's question - kids are not necessarily difficult to handle. It depends on the kid and on the parent. Some kids are more rambunctious and therefore more draining on the parent's energy. Then there are parents who are unprepared to deal with the realities of a child - much of your free time is lost, and this little person will need you for EVERYTHING for a long time. It's a difficult job at time, but not so difficult that it stops people from having another child. It's also easier to adjust to the change when having a child is not a surprise - my daughter was more difficult for me because I was young and unprepared for motherhood. By the time I had my son, it was easier. So it really depends on the person.
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@kezabelle (2974)
•
26 Aug 08
I have two and id like one more, i dont think it is unfair as long as you can care and provide for them the amount you have doesnt matter its how you deal with and care for them that matters
@sudhajosyula50 (3808)
• India
27 Aug 08
Its true.Just out of curosity i asked this question.
Have a nice day.
@amirev777 (4117)
• India
26 Aug 08
hi
yeah i agree with you-in todays world its very difficult to have more than 2 kids-i wud prefer just one-but wud go maximum upto two.gone are those days when u cud have 3,4 or even 5 kids.
@mylittlestar (12)
• Philippines
26 Aug 08
i wanted to have 3 kids a twins (one boy and one girl) and another girl :)
but unfortunately after almost 3 years of trying we're not that lucky to have even one.Maybe in God's time i'll have one .God has a reason for everything.but im not loosing my FAITH
@sudhajosyula50 (3808)
• India
26 Aug 08
Please dont worry friend.
Everything would be fine.
Have a nice day.
@maryann82 (133)
• Philippines
26 Aug 08
i just had my first baby and she's really wonderful... i had a tough pregnancy but my husband and i still want to have another kid four years from now... before i got pregnant we wanted 4 children but having a tough pregnancy my husband and ob had adviced us to have fewer kids and really space my pregnancy years...
@pehpot (4762)
• Philippines
26 Aug 08
I already have 3 boys, ages 5, 4 and 3 months old. If our financial capability can accommodate I would like to have more and more kids. They say the more the happier, maybe two or three more baby girls. But as the economy now is worsening, I think I want at least one more baby, and I want it to be a baby girl. But not so soon of course.
@rosedust82 (2066)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
I'd love to have two or four kids. As long as it's an even number. If you ask me why, I really don't know. I'm thinking ideally like if I have four kids, they should be two boys and two girls so that no one would be left out. 
@sudhajosyula50 (3808)
• India
21 Aug 08
Its seems good.But i think it is too more i suppose.
Anyway all the best for getting them.
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
22 Aug 08
If we had more money and were able to support them, I would be willing to have 6. 
I love kids. Although 6 might be a little too much lol. We have 3 and we decided to stop. Financially we just can't provide for any more kids. We love the ones we have and we are happy.
I love kids. Although 6 might be a little too much lol. We have 3 and we decided to stop. Financially we just can't provide for any more kids. We love the ones we have and we are happy.@sudhajosyula50 (3808)
• India
25 Aug 08
Its good to be happy with what we have rather than thinking too much.
Have a nice day.
@jonesy123 (3948)
• United States
20 Aug 08
When I was little I wanted enough kids to form a soccer team, lol. Then I grew up and got wiser. Before we got married I wanted four, my husband two, so we agreed on three. Three is what we have now and they are keeping me busy, busy, busy. I don't think I could deal with a fourth nor do I want to;)
@sudhajosyula50 (3808)
• India
20 Aug 08
Oh its great.
Enjoy with your kids
Have a nice day and say hi to your kids...
@liltunergirl (467)
• Canada
21 Aug 08
I already have 1 child right now and when I'm more financially stable and have someone that really cares about me and my daughter, I hope on having at 2-3 more. I'd like to have 3-4 kids but find it hard right now, in the situation I am in. My daugter will be much older then the other children as I had her young but hopefully in the near future i will be at a stage where I can have another. I love children and love larger families so I would definitely wantmore then 2.
@sujithakripesh (425)
• India
20 Aug 08
Even I would like to have 2 kids. Because if we have one kid then that will feel very lonely so I dont want my kid to grow like that. and 3 kids will be too much.
@serenity264 (366)
• Philippines
25 Aug 08
Hi there.. I'm still fairly young but if i were to have kids I would probably just want three... I'm great with kids and someday I'd like to settle down and have a family of my own.. Since I'm an only child I've always longed for brothers and sisters that's why I'd like to have 2-3 kids so that my children won't be lonely.. :)
@youngsweetheart (772)
• United States
20 Aug 08
I already have two children, and I adore them. When I was young(er), I wanted a big family - five kids at least. (Only children often go to one extreme or the other, I've heard). Now that I have the reality of two, along with the difficulty caused by my second pregnancy, I am unsure if I want more. I am stuck on the fence completely, on the one hand being sure I couldn't handle baby number three no matter how desperately I want it, and on the other hand not willing to committ to being completely done with having babies at my age (I'm 24).
But I have plenty of time to figure it out, at least.
No more than 4, though, if I were to have more. That's four total, lol - not four plus the two I alread have!
