Online Lovers...

@kassdaw (593)
United States
August 20, 2008 1:21pm CST
How do you handle falling in love with someone you have never met? I have been talking to a guy for five days now, we talk for hours, usually 8 or 9, a night. I am completely confused about what to do. He is a total dork, and I love it. I am nerd and he thinks that it is so cute. We exchange photos and stuff about our personal lifes. I realize that we have talked more them most couples do in the first month of a relationship. He reads my blog and my poetry and he likes it. He tells me all the things that any girl would love to hear. Now I don't know what to do. I am lost in my mind, my computer, and his words. I may need to seek professional help. "Love hurts when God knows you deserve someone better." Happy Writing.
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• United States
20 Aug 08
if u keep going down this road u will eventualy want to meet him u cant continue like this forever it can get deep into u, and as much as u may know the person on the internet the small things may change everything for u, the small things that u see when u meet him. plus u cant always count on his word it's internet he may be luying about many stuff
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@moondancer (7433)
• United States
20 Aug 08
Honey, I hate it but you have only known this guy for 5 days. Rguardless if you have talked for hours per day or only a few. The problem is you only know his words. You don't know him. Some poeple are very good with words and not with a person. What they speak is not what they are like in person. I know you must be since you believe everything he is saying. And you have probably told him way too much about yourself at this point. Love does hurt. Even really really caring for someone hurts if you don't stay with them when you know you have different lives and different goals. I think you two need more time to get to know each other. Many months not just days. People change for whatever reason after they hear what they want to hear. For heavens sake don't get intimate with him, you don't really know him. I hope you get what I'm saying because I understand that you are smitten. It will hurt even more though if you get more attached to him and find out that all this time he's not what or who you thought him to be, or it don't work out for whatever reason. I wish you lots of luck in what you deside to do. Just remember life is hard enough without having a rough relationship or someone that don't have the same goals as you. Now I must admit it's much better and easier to meet someone face to face and develope a relationship. Then you can see them and their actions as well as hear what tehy say to you. I know may guys that can talk the talk, but when it comes to being what he says...well he's far from it. It is the gift of gab he has. Just make sure before you put too much time into this relationship with you two as a couple before being friends that you are willing to give much more, because that's what it will take. But never put your dreams and life on hold for any guy no matter who he is.
@lira23 (209)
• United States
20 Aug 08
Be careful with online relationships, it changes a lot of things.These two online friends of mine knew each other for years, and when they finally met and moved in together with each other ,it didn't last but a week and so the male had to move back where he was from leaving him out of money and a job because he quit to move in with her at a different state. These people can be the nicest to you online for ever and when you meet it all goes down hill, just use your best judgment, I've met a couple of people online and things are still fine, but theres always a chance it may not be the same for you.