Do you have a favoritism in the family?

In my case i dont have any favoritism in the circle of the family because that might can cause a grudges between the member of your family... i treat them equally and if possible i dont want to hate somebody from the family.

My oldest daughter is very outspoken and self assured-she does not believe in sugar coating anything. My second daughter is softer and easier to relax around. My oldest son is energetic and busy always, my youngest son is more thoughtful and laid back. My oldest grandson is bright, quick and enjoys playing with me and my youngest g-son likes to be petted and is very loving. So according to what kind of mood i am in they are all my favorites.

My youngest grand daughter is my favorite, let me explain before you say I am bad. She suffered a stroke when she was 8 and now that she is back to about 90% of herself again, she is different than her sister that has always been well and does so good in school. Megan needs a little extra from everyone. She goes with me to the store and she will ask for something and if you could see the look on the poor little childs face, she is so deprived, (right) and I just can't help but buy it, she is always there for me, when I had the open heart surgery, I stayed at my daughter's house and she was about 5 she was right there to get her grannie's medicine and she would wash my hair as I bent over the tub, (even if she did almost drown me) haha, she is such a sweetie and I love her but I love all the rest the same way, she just gets a little more attention because we dont' know how long she may be with us.

Hi patzel,i have to say, of course i have,but it doesnot mean i donot care the other families,i just have some ideas want to share with him my grandfather.lol

It's never good at all to practice favoritism in the family. It strains relationship among family members. My husband and I have been making it a point that each one of our four kids are treated equally and we have been explaining it to them why in certain circumstances, we have to give way to the youngest, she is still a baby. I believe personally that favoritism should not be practiced inside every home for peace and harmony.

How ever hard you try as a parent, or Grandparent, to the best you can by all, they always manage to put a spin on it, I know in my heart of hearts that I have been an equal giving Farther, and now Grandfather, but when ever we all get together, one or an other might say, yes but you've always favoured ? over me, be it all said in jest, I feel this is not true, however I applaud there honesty, even if it is miss placed, I put it down to a very small insecurity issue, that has accrued outside the family.