Have You Ever Been Involved With A Married Man Or Woman?
By singlemommy
@singlemommy (2955)
United States
August 21, 2008 8:14pm CST
I've read on here about some who have been cheated on by their wife/husband. But I'm wondering if anyone on here has been the "other man or woman". I know personally, I have been on both sides of the story. I've been the "other woman" and I've been the one who was getting cheated on too. So, have any of you been the "other woman" or the "other man"?
6 responses
@pixiedustforyou2008 (2422)
• United States
22 Aug 08
i have been i was invold with a married man at once... He was telling me that he was separated and that they were together anymore this went one for about week until he went home and he didn't call me for days at a time and than i get a call from his wife telling me that i need to leave him alone that he was a married men.. Well i told her every thing that he had said about her and about their marriage... She did seem to happy about that... i don't know what happen after that i did have any contact with him since than..
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@Boeithus1 (1)
• United States
15 Apr 09
There is this married man who I would see occasionly over a two year period in the park on my jogs. Recently he gave me his email and told me to drop him a line. I did drop him a line and he professed that he was in love with me for two years. And did not had the courage to approach me. He told me that he was married and want to have a romantic relationship with me. He has written me some romantic poems professing his love and his wanting me always. We sat recently and had a chat he told me about his wife and family. He did not bad mouth his wife but said that she stop being intimate with him. He also said he did not want to hurt me but he does not want to lose me. I was upset at his contridictions and confronted him. I told him that I will not get involved with a married man and he should refrain from pursuing me. He agree that he will stop pursing and sending me these romantic poems. Did I make the right decision not getting involved with him?
@Joseph2 (1)
• United States
22 Aug 08
Yes, I too, have been on both sides and the greatest lesson I learned was this: "If you want to really screw up your life, start messing around. I have two married children who have daughters and three great, granddaughters and guess what, none of them will have a thing to do with me. Our relationship has been that was since 1963."The best message is, if you want something different, don't do it while you are promised to someone else!
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@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
22 Aug 08
That is very good advice. And I agree totally, sometimes the decisions we make in life can totally screw our lives up as well. I'm sorry about you not getting to know your grandchildren and great grandchildren. Maybe someday things will change for you . Thanks for your comment!
@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
16 Apr 09
Hi, I can say one thing proudly. I have been married for the last 22 years of our life. My husband is a very straight man, no hanky panky but I occassionally tend to flirt with guys just for the fun of it. Nothing serious, just fun to keep me feeling young and desirable, haha. I have had married men give propositions to me, one even wanting to marry me, if I left my husband. Oh, we have our ups and downs, but not the separating kind. We usually forget and forgive each other and dont keep grudges.
