is it love or lust?
August 22, 2008 8:22am CST
how do you tell if the man is really interested in having a relationship with you or is just interested to sleep with you? would you sleep with a person without any string attached or commitment - marriage, a lot of women would do the act and end up regretting it. will you or will you not?
22 Aug 08
you should know this if you are sensitive, but for you to be sure what the man really wanted with you, to have relationship or just for the sake of sleeping with you, maybe youll just have to know him better, get to know each other first!
23 Aug 08
hmmm... Well it seems that this always happens to me. A lot of guys ask me out for a drink then i'll agree seeing as its just a date but the longer I keep in contact with them I find out that they only want to sleep with me. After a date they'd invite me back to their place and this is just the first date... but I don't sleep with them... I can't sleep with a person and say there's no strings attached... Why would I want to share an intimate moment with someone I don't care about? besides if I'm gonna sleep with someone i want that someone to treasure the moment...
22 Aug 08
i think if the man you like is a player...by that i mean he chats up a lot of other women...then probably he is just trying to get into your pants..... if that person genuinly like you and is afraid to tell you, you could try an giving him a nudge.... if the person you like is sensible and polite and not arrogant their is a good chance he does like you....
23 Aug 08
hello its really very difficult to tell wheter its love or lust.its mostly love with women and more of a lust with men.it all depends on which part of his body he's experiencing a tingling feeling upon meeting you-if its in the hear,its love,but if it happens in between his legs-its lust!