Single & 30?
By agnes4mail
@agnes4mail (131)
Indonesia
August 23, 2008 4:29am CST
Well in my country, at 30 people expect you to be a wife and a mother of one, two or even three kids! But the fact is some of us, still single at 30, and facing the people around you asking about you being single and 30, sometimes not so easy ;p. So any suggestion or ideas guys? Happy my lotting n have a great weekend :)
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7 responses
@djoyce71 (2511)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
You must have your reasons why you chose to be single at 30. Just tell them the truth why you're still single and I guess they will understand. Are you happy? If you're happy being single, then why bother. Or, you might want to look for a boyfriend (LOL).
Good day agnes!
@agnes4mail (131)
• Indonesia
23 Aug 08
Aiih, thats a very good idea djoyce lol...
Sometimes u told people though and sometimes not
and sometimes they understand and sometimes not...
so why bother, thats will be the exact words to said 2 ur self sometimes hahahahaha
Thank you djoyce, and good day for u too :)
@Lovecoffin (290)
• China
23 Aug 08
Hey,my friend.Just take it easy.I dont think 30 is an age when it is necessary for women to have kids.In today's society,any women in 30's are still young.ya,dont be care anybody around u say what,just do what u think is good for u~happy all day~agnes3mail~
@agnes4mail (131)
• Indonesia
23 Aug 08
I'll be 17 forever even though I'm 90 years old hahahaha, no I'm not worrying :), just trying to richen my ideas thats all ;p
happy all day for you too lovecoffin :)
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
If you are comfortable being single at 30, then there's no problem. Don't let ANYONE pressure you just because you're 30. Everybody pressured my cousin at 30 and she got so pissed. She married at 33 and is very very happy with her husband.
No one can force you to get into a relationship if you don't want to. It's your life, you know what's best for you.
@agnes4mail (131)
• Indonesia
23 Aug 08
True, I'm not even reach 30 and everybody already busy about it lol
I hope so, that I know what best for my life :)
thanks for sharing bout ur cousin :)
@agnes4mail (131)
• Indonesia
23 Aug 08
Hahahaha, nah I guess I choose not to be the cat who get killed by curiosity, well you know sometimes my friends get pissed of with all the question that people I'm asking, while I'm just laughing bout it when they questioned me :p
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
23 Aug 08
I think this is a very personal matter, whether you stay as single or not. Please enjoy your life as a single instead of worrying on other people becuase after getting married you won't get this opportunity. People are very interested to know other's personal matters; it is a common nature of human beings. Just ignore it now, huge responsibilties are waiting for you. Best of luck.
@agnes4mail (131)
• Indonesia
23 Aug 08
Sometimes they did what they did or asked what they asked simply because they care, I guess...hehehe, sometimes they do forget that's really a personal matter :), but then again no one wants to see someone they really care spending their life alone, so am I. Basically I'm understand the matter that they're asking from time to time, so I didnt get pissed of by it, but some others not, and get pissed of by it :)
@Raja_Franklin (683)
• India
23 Aug 08
I am also 30 and single. People sometimes ask about it. But I enjoy being single.
@agnes4mail (131)
• Indonesia
23 Aug 08
Being a single at 30 is not easy as you think if you are a female here you know... considering guys always looking at you with a watering mouth ahahahaha, but what could I say, nothing, I choose to be laughed at it, I guess its better than being pissed of like the rest of my friends hihihihi :)
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
8 Sep 08
The question is do you want to get married? If so, whenever it comes up, tell whomever that you haven't met the right person yet. If you don't want to be married then tell them to mind their own business or tell them that you Never want to marry. i guess I am very lucky, here in the States, there isn't that much pressure from society to get married. You may get pressured from your family if your parents want grandchildren, but not from society.
