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if your first lover want to recover the feeling with you, your response?
By successlog
@successlog (3172)
China
August 24, 2008 1:47am CST
Hello all mylotters:
I think many of you meet this situation in present life. So this is a true problem.If your first lover want to recover the past feeling with you, will you accept her/him again? whatever you answer:can or can not, just tell me the reason !
Thanks a lot !!
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8 responses
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
26 Aug 08
Hi dear
Love is an amazing thing - doesn't follow any rule. You ever know what's going to happen and when. As for your query, I would rather not accept him again unless still in love with him myself. If i am still in love, I would forgive and forget the past bitterness and move on. He has to be truthful though.
Thanks.
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@successlog (3172)
• China
26 Aug 08
yes, it is right.we should move on floowing our feeling ...
good luck
have a nice day
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
26 Aug 08
It really depends on how I still feel for that person. Also if that person has caused me a lot of hurt too I wouldn't go back with her again. I'm happy with my present now and dwelling in the past wouldn't help me at all.
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
24 Aug 08
Well maybe it depends on how we broke up! And I will think it over a thousand times if I will accept her again into my life. Well sometimes you can't really know if it was really meant for you. But if I am commited and she's coming back that is a different story cause I already move on. Have a nice day!
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@sutanhartanto (4122)
• Indonesia
25 Aug 08
hi successlog,
that depends on my situation (and hers also). if i am still single and she is also with nobody, and i think i still love her, why not. but if i have been with someone else, of course i cannot accept her.
@Nana530 (286)
• United States
25 Aug 08
I'm really not sure. But since I have been a widow for eleven years I will say that I might consider it. But I'm pretty set in my ways these days, just lonely and I think it would be nice to have a companion to just be friends with. Is that possible? lol
Nana
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@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
24 Aug 08
Well, that would depend on how I feel about him. If I still love him despite everything that happened berween us then I could consider getting back with him again. hey also say "love is lovelier the second time around" -- and I have proven this with my husband. He was my first boyfriend. We were together for 8 and a half years before tying the knot. In between those years, we had so many fights and about 2 major breakups. I still believe that if a couple is meant to be together, love will find a way to bring them together.
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