Posessive of best friend

Singapore
August 24, 2008 1:59am CST
Please help me! I have a best friend, but I am not very trusting of our friendship. I don't even know whether I'm his best friend! He has another close friend, and whenever I see them hanging out, I always feel very jealous. I would like to bring myself to hate that friend, but it is not in my nature to be spiteful. So right now I'm feeling confused and emotionally tired. Let me know if you have similiar experiences, and how you managed to resolve them.
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3 responses
• India
24 Aug 08
My answer to such situation is to not to worry about other's choices and conceptions.You should live like and independent person not one's slave . You have a best friend -that is OK , But that does not mean exact reciprocity. So, don't bother if he does not require you in the same manner as you want him . You should lead your normal life (avoid any kind of jealousy or what so ever feeling in your mind bcoz it will kill your longstanding friendship otherwise.)
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• Singapore
24 Aug 08
Thanks. I know that I should think this way as well, but how can I avoid jealousy?
@SHAMRACK (8580)
• India
26 Aug 08
Dear friend, I do had seen friends like this they even do quarrellings with other who make friends with their best friends. May be this might be not known to your best friend that you do not like other who make friends with your best friend. Anyhow if you just think it more better way I hope this could be solved or making friends with those friends of your best friends too could give much relief I hope quarrelling for reasons like this could give more negative results. Hence it depends upon one's psychological side to get the positive results from these situations. I had experienced any similar situations to this. Hence I feel thinking only positive about the friends of your best friend may help a lot. But I do like more to with my best friend and his friends.
• Singapore
31 Aug 08
Yes I am friendly with his friend but it just doesn't seem right to me. And no, I don't quarrel with my best friend about this.
@laxmi123 (949)
• India
25 Aug 08
yes friend .i like your discussion.because i had same feeling. i had to face in this situation.i am so angry in that time.this feeling is very critical.i know.i think you had in this feeling.dont worry friend. i am here. you are my best best friend. any how .have a nice day. happy my lotting